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Changed your life with women?HOMBRE said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I feel the need to apologize.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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HOMBRE said:
I've always loved women, I just didn't know how to utilize my love.
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Yeah I have learned that the way to utilize your love is NOT being an AFC.HOMBRE said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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We can certainly try, but at the end of it all, iqqi has to WANT to fix her problem... and that's even if she believes she has a problem.
You know how many times I was tempted to help out drunk AWs? Too many to count. I really felt bad for them, but what could I do? Give them a ride home so they could sleep it off? Let them puke in my truck?
It's really fukkin sad to see, but the person with the problem needs to want help. That's why our "mission" over at Loveshack was successful, it's full of people who want help.
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Amen. I'm not talking about an intervention. If iqqi doesn't ask for help then none will be given.Desdinova said:
Karma.
Knew in time you'd come to the realization that no one should ever verbally (erm mean textally) effect ones emotional balance.
We all shouldn't have reacted to, responded against or attached ourself to iqqi's statements, it just fueled her and entertained drama more then it helped anyone.
iqqi is a girl that change is hard to accept or infect. What we done is help ourselves go around in circles.
We all slip, it's natural.
Karma you'll always be a great man, no matter how many slips you make we'll be here, because we know you. No amount of slipperiness change what we know of you.
Knew in time you'd come to the realization that no one should ever verbally (erm mean textally) effect ones emotional balance.
We all shouldn't have reacted to, responded against or attached ourself to iqqi's statements, it just fueled her and entertained drama more then it helped anyone.
iqqi is a girl that change is hard to accept or infect. What we done is help ourselves go around in circles.
We all slip, it's natural.
Karma you'll always be a great man, no matter how many slips you make we'll be here, because we know you. No amount of slipperiness change what we know of you.
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This is the clarity I've come to expect from wise Brothers such as Zen.ZenGodMod said:
Thank you my friend.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Whoa! whoa!! whoa!!!...whoa!!!!
whoa...
Are posters here referring to ketostix as "KX"?
This has been my loveable moniker on forums since the beginning of time when posters have wished to assign a nickname for me.
If keto wishes to supplant me as KX he must face me in direct combat to the death!
*Watches Karma sound the battlehorn for the mideivel style duel*
LOL.
whoa...
Are posters here referring to ketostix as "KX"?
This has been my loveable moniker on forums since the beginning of time when posters have wished to assign a nickname for me.
If keto wishes to supplant me as KX he must face me in direct combat to the death!
*Watches Karma sound the battlehorn for the mideivel style duel*
LOL.
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I think Hombre might be a woman.HOMBRE said:
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Men, we should be celebrating our victory, not fighting amongst ourselves. We live to fight another day...KontrollerX said:
We need a sosuave victory march...and yes, with bagpipes.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3Kk-sOojjE&feature=related
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No sh!t. Try not to make it so obvious next time, HOMBRE.Charmed said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Abso-fvcking-lutely! With bagpipes and kilts with nothing underneath but sweaty sac and farts!Mr.Positive said:
Hot damn I love being a man!
ss is made up of different men but the collective energy for a brief time became one entity and had a hell of a time for a few days there.
All the guys who take this place seriously aren't just reflecting that energy into other sites, it's in all your day to day interactions--which means that ss energy is bouncing all over the place, all over the world--positive masculinity in this world is now growing. It's the birth of a new age.
:crackup:
All the guys who take this place seriously aren't just reflecting that energy into other sites, it's in all your day to day interactions--which means that ss energy is bouncing all over the place, all over the world--positive masculinity in this world is now growing. It's the birth of a new age.
:crackup:
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Exactly reset.
Sosuave energy is the answer to the world energy crisis!
Sosuave energy is the answer to the world energy crisis!
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Damnit...I love being a man too!! I'm fired up right now, and I've got bagpipes blaring as I type this...you know, we ought to form the first sosuave pipes and drums band.KarmaSutra said:
Something like this..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cKA98EGJ_Ak&feature=related
To honour our fallen, and march us forward into battle. Positive masculinity!! Miserable feminists... try and stop us!!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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