"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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HOMBRE said:
Actually, I've had other forums change my life. I can't speak for this one since I'm new.
Changed your life with women?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My Name is Nobody said:
Changed your life with women?
Absolutely with women..no doubt about that. With men too. But yeah, with women especially. I used to not like women much...kind of like most of you I'd guess.
 
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Absolutely with women..no doubt about that. With men too. But yeah, with women especially. I used to not like women much...kind of like most of you I'd guess.

I've always loved women, I just didn't know how to utilize my love.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
I've always loved women, I just didn't know how to utilize my love.
"Utilize" your love. Interesting way of putting it. So did you figure out how to "utilize" it? Your love I mean.
 
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"Utilize" your love. Interesting way of putting it. So did you figure out how to "utilize" it? Your love I mean.
Yeah I have learned that the way to utilize your love is NOT being an AFC.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If we're going to interject ourselves into other people's lives why can't we step up and help iqqi with her problem?
We can certainly try, but at the end of it all, iqqi has to WANT to fix her problem... and that's even if she believes she has a problem.

You know how many times I was tempted to help out drunk AWs? Too many to count. I really felt bad for them, but what could I do? Give them a ride home so they could sleep it off? Let them puke in my truck?

It's really fukkin sad to see, but the person with the problem needs to want help. That's why our "mission" over at Loveshack was successful, it's full of people who want help.
 

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We can certainly try, but at the end of it all, iqqi has to WANT to fix her problem... and that's even if she believes she has a problem.

You know how many times I was tempted to help out drunk AWs? Too many to count. I really felt bad for them, but what could I do? Give them a ride home so they could sleep it off? Let them puke in my truck?

It's really fukkin sad to see, but the person with the problem needs to want help. That's why our "mission" over at Loveshack was successful, it's full of people who want help.
Amen. I'm not talking about an intervention. If iqqi doesn't ask for help then none will be given.
 

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We can certainly try, but at the end of it all, iqqi has to WANT to fix her problem... and that's even if she believes she has a problem.

You know how many times I was tempted to help out drunk AWs? Too many to count. I really felt bad for them, but what could I do? Give them a ride home so they could sleep it off? Let them puke in my truck?

It's really fukkin sad to see, but the person with the problem needs to want help. That's why our "mission" over at Loveshack was successful, it's full of people who want help.
Your mission was a complete and dismal failure.

What's an AW? And what's an AFC again? I can't keep up with all these retarded abbreviations, sorry.
 

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Karma.

Knew in time you'd come to the realization that no one should ever verbally (erm mean textally) effect ones emotional balance.

We all shouldn't have reacted to, responded against or attached ourself to iqqi's statements, it just fueled her and entertained drama more then it helped anyone.

iqqi is a girl that change is hard to accept or infect. What we done is help ourselves go around in circles.

We all slip, it's natural.

Karma you'll always be a great man, no matter how many slips you make we'll be here, because we know you. No amount of slipperiness change what we know of you.
 

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We all shouldn't have reacted to, responded against or attached ourself to iqqi's statements, it just fueled her and entertained drama more then it helped anyone.
This is the clarity I've come to expect from wise Brothers such as Zen.

Thank you my friend.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Whoa! whoa!! whoa!!!...whoa!!!!


whoa...

Are posters here referring to ketostix as "KX"?

This has been my loveable moniker on forums since the beginning of time when posters have wished to assign a nickname for me.

If keto wishes to supplant me as KX he must face me in direct combat to the death!

*Watches Karma sound the battlehorn for the mideivel style duel*

LOL.
 
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HOMBRE said:
Your mission was a complete and dismal failure.

What's an AW? And what's an AFC again? I can't keep up with all these retarded abbreviations, sorry.
I think Hombre might be a woman.
 

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KontrollerX said:
If keto wishes to supplant me as KX he must face me in direct combat to the death!

*Watches Karma sound the battlehorn for the mideivel style duel*

LOL.
Men, we should be celebrating our victory, not fighting amongst ourselves. We live to fight another day...

We need a sosuave victory march...and yes, with bagpipes.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3Kk-sOojjE&feature=related
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Men, we should be celebrating our victory, not fighting amongst ourselves. We live to fight another day...

We need a sosuave victory march...and yes, with bagpipes.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3Kk-sOojjE&feature=related
Abso-fvcking-lutely! With bagpipes and kilts with nothing underneath but sweaty sac and farts!

Hot damn I love being a man!
 

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ss is made up of different men but the collective energy for a brief time became one entity and had a hell of a time for a few days there.

All the guys who take this place seriously aren't just reflecting that energy into other sites, it's in all your day to day interactions--which means that ss energy is bouncing all over the place, all over the world--positive masculinity in this world is now growing. It's the birth of a new age.

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Exactly reset.

Sosuave energy is the answer to the world energy crisis!
 

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Sosuave energy is the answer to the world energy crisis!
Advanced ss technology.
 

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Abso-fvcking-lutely! With bagpipes and kilts with nothing underneath but sweaty sac and farts!

Hot damn I love being a man!
Damnit...I love being a man too!! I'm fired up right now, and I've got bagpipes blaring as I type this...you know, we ought to form the first sosuave pipes and drums band.

Something like this..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cKA98EGJ_Ak&feature=related

To honour our fallen, and march us forward into battle. Positive masculinity!! Miserable feminists... try and stop us!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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