"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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HOMBRE said:
Actually, I've had other forums change my life. I can't speak for this one since I'm new.
Changed your life with women?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My Name is Nobody said:
Changed your life with women?
Absolutely with women..no doubt about that. With men too. But yeah, with women especially. I used to not like women much...kind of like most of you I'd guess.
 
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Absolutely with women..no doubt about that. With men too. But yeah, with women especially. I used to not like women much...kind of like most of you I'd guess.

I've always loved women, I just didn't know how to utilize my love.
 

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I've always loved women, I just didn't know how to utilize my love.
"Utilize" your love. Interesting way of putting it. So did you figure out how to "utilize" it? Your love I mean.
 
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"Utilize" your love. Interesting way of putting it. So did you figure out how to "utilize" it? Your love I mean.
Yeah I have learned that the way to utilize your love is NOT being an AFC.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If we're going to interject ourselves into other people's lives why can't we step up and help iqqi with her problem?
We can certainly try, but at the end of it all, iqqi has to WANT to fix her problem... and that's even if she believes she has a problem.

You know how many times I was tempted to help out drunk AWs? Too many to count. I really felt bad for them, but what could I do? Give them a ride home so they could sleep it off? Let them puke in my truck?

It's really fukkin sad to see, but the person with the problem needs to want help. That's why our "mission" over at Loveshack was successful, it's full of people who want help.
 

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We can certainly try, but at the end of it all, iqqi has to WANT to fix her problem... and that's even if she believes she has a problem.

You know how many times I was tempted to help out drunk AWs? Too many to count. I really felt bad for them, but what could I do? Give them a ride home so they could sleep it off? Let them puke in my truck?

It's really fukkin sad to see, but the person with the problem needs to want help. That's why our "mission" over at Loveshack was successful, it's full of people who want help.
Amen. I'm not talking about an intervention. If iqqi doesn't ask for help then none will be given.
 

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We can certainly try, but at the end of it all, iqqi has to WANT to fix her problem... and that's even if she believes she has a problem.

You know how many times I was tempted to help out drunk AWs? Too many to count. I really felt bad for them, but what could I do? Give them a ride home so they could sleep it off? Let them puke in my truck?

It's really fukkin sad to see, but the person with the problem needs to want help. That's why our "mission" over at Loveshack was successful, it's full of people who want help.
Your mission was a complete and dismal failure.

What's an AW? And what's an AFC again? I can't keep up with all these retarded abbreviations, sorry.
 

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Karma.

Knew in time you'd come to the realization that no one should ever verbally (erm mean textally) effect ones emotional balance.

We all shouldn't have reacted to, responded against or attached ourself to iqqi's statements, it just fueled her and entertained drama more then it helped anyone.

iqqi is a girl that change is hard to accept or infect. What we done is help ourselves go around in circles.

We all slip, it's natural.

Karma you'll always be a great man, no matter how many slips you make we'll be here, because we know you. No amount of slipperiness change what we know of you.
 

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We all shouldn't have reacted to, responded against or attached ourself to iqqi's statements, it just fueled her and entertained drama more then it helped anyone.
This is the clarity I've come to expect from wise Brothers such as Zen.

Thank you my friend.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Whoa! whoa!! whoa!!!...whoa!!!!


whoa...

Are posters here referring to ketostix as "KX"?

This has been my loveable moniker on forums since the beginning of time when posters have wished to assign a nickname for me.

If keto wishes to supplant me as KX he must face me in direct combat to the death!

*Watches Karma sound the battlehorn for the mideivel style duel*

LOL.
 
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HOMBRE said:
Your mission was a complete and dismal failure.

What's an AW? And what's an AFC again? I can't keep up with all these retarded abbreviations, sorry.
I think Hombre might be a woman.
 

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If keto wishes to supplant me as KX he must face me in direct combat to the death!

*Watches Karma sound the battlehorn for the mideivel style duel*

LOL.
Men, we should be celebrating our victory, not fighting amongst ourselves. We live to fight another day...

We need a sosuave victory march...and yes, with bagpipes.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3Kk-sOojjE&feature=related
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Men, we should be celebrating our victory, not fighting amongst ourselves. We live to fight another day...

We need a sosuave victory march...and yes, with bagpipes.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3Kk-sOojjE&feature=related
Abso-fvcking-lutely! With bagpipes and kilts with nothing underneath but sweaty sac and farts!

Hot damn I love being a man!
 

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ss is made up of different men but the collective energy for a brief time became one entity and had a hell of a time for a few days there.

All the guys who take this place seriously aren't just reflecting that energy into other sites, it's in all your day to day interactions--which means that ss energy is bouncing all over the place, all over the world--positive masculinity in this world is now growing. It's the birth of a new age.

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Exactly reset.

Sosuave energy is the answer to the world energy crisis!
 

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Sosuave energy is the answer to the world energy crisis!
Advanced ss technology.
 

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Abso-fvcking-lutely! With bagpipes and kilts with nothing underneath but sweaty sac and farts!

Hot damn I love being a man!
Damnit...I love being a man too!! I'm fired up right now, and I've got bagpipes blaring as I type this...you know, we ought to form the first sosuave pipes and drums band.

Something like this..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cKA98EGJ_Ak&feature=related

To honour our fallen, and march us forward into battle. Positive masculinity!! Miserable feminists... try and stop us!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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