"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Greasy Pig

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Being a secret agent makes it hard for women to get that close to me.
My bedroom fetishes tend to scare most women.
I can cook and clean myself.
Why ruin a perfectly good sex life by getting married?
Wow, I'm flattered. Thanks!
Women who think I'm hot ask this all the time.
Modelling around the world makes it tough to form lasting relationships.
 
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Marriage isn't appealing to me.

You must be terrified of dying alone.
 

adam225

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escaleraroyal said:
Girl: You are 34, incredibly still have no wife[Scowl], you failed
And ??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Cool. Peace"

F*ck playing games with combative females. If she was joking, she'll keep it going. If not, she wasn't worth it. I'll be damned if a female tells me "I failed." I'm not in school. I GRADUATED SO DON'T TEST ME
 

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Being a secret agent makes it hard for women to get that close to me.
My bedroom fetishes tend to scare most women.
I can cook and clean myself.
Why ruin a perfectly good sex life by getting married?
Wow, I'm flattered. Thanks!
Women who think I'm hot ask this all the time.
Modelling around the world makes it tough to form lasting relationships.


This^

Good witty responses...
 

HalfPUAHalfAFC

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I think not replying and deleting her number is the best advice here so far.

If you must replay, think along these lines (and not with the idea of teasing or being witty to game her; she's a low quality entitled pain in the azz):

"Yawn"
"Unsubscribe"
"Lol..bye"
"Marriage? WTF??"
"Enjoy your cats"

Hopefully, she'll get the message that you are dismissing her and not reply. But hamsters gonna hamst... She'll probably reply. Ignore her.

Then, if she ever sends you a text again, you reply, "Who is this?" because you want her to know that you deleted her number. Then when she replies, ignore her again.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"I missed the part where your opinion of me is relevant. Please send all gossipy texts to somebody who gives a flying Fvck what you think in the future. (that means keep them to yourself)"

then ignore
 

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Greasy Pig said:
Being a secret agent makes it hard for women to get that close to me.
My bedroom fetishes tend to scare most women.
I can cook and clean myself.
Why ruin a perfectly good sex life by getting married?
Wow, I'm flattered. Thanks!
Women who think I'm hot ask this all the time.
Modelling around the world makes it tough to form lasting relationships.
I like these. But only if it is in line with his personality.

On the real though, I can't stand when people ask how to reply to a specific message.
Especially one that has to be taken out of context because we haven't seen any of the previous conversation.
For all we know he could have been pouring his heart out to her before she said that.
To follow that with a witty statement would clearly be incongruent.
 

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Depends on how well you know this girl and whether or not you like her (and I only mean like as in a friend you'll take the pi$$ out of).

I'd probably just play it up for $hits and giggles.

"You think I should stop breaking hearts?"
"Subtle hints like that don't work on me... if you want me to marry you, just come out and say it!"
"With all the offers I've had, it IS incredible isn't it?"
 

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"You have bad breath."
"You have saggy tits."
"My grandma has more sex appeal than you."
"Your mouth is as loose as your pvssy."


I would just say random sh!t to her. If you are a high status individual, this text shouldn't faze you at all and should actually be amusing that such a slvt would text you something like this. Saying something random at her to convey that you really don't care would be the way to go.

On the other hand, if you are a low status male, you would over analyze this text, get depressed, try to reason with her, and be butt hurt that she insulted you.

Don't be a low status male.
 

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Espi said:
I'm wondering WHY you would even CONSIDER responding to that text.
To have some fun with it? Personally, I would come back with some humorous yet outrageous response that is sure to get her pissed. Some examples:

"How am I supposed to be banging dirty slvts like you if I'm married?"

"Are you PMS'ing again, cupcake?"

"It's cheaper to hire a maid."

"I would have proposed to you, but I can't afford to feed you" (extra points of the chick is on the chubby side).

"Are you trying to get me to propose? Sorry, you're too old for me."
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I Agree with others who said not to respond. If you DO respond.. its likely she won't. Then you'll just get pissed for wasting your time.

Ignore, ignore, ignore.
 

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escaleraroyal said:
Girl: You are 34, incredibly still have no wife[Scowl], you failed
How can you ignore that? You let that simmer, going to bug you for a long time. Fight back. Rip her in two.
 

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Backhanded compliment: "incredibly". Not something to get upset about lads!

I like Greasy Pigs response: Women who think I'm hot ask this all the time.

*writes it down.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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