spiegel549
Senior Don Juan
Personally if I just ignore that kind of text. I will go crazy saying why didn't I say something back. I would respond with a witty line like what she texted you had ZERO affect on you, and THEN ignore her azz.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.