How some women can have such a strong impact on us?

[jhonny9546]

Why can't you explain how some women can have such a strong impact on you?

They may not even be remotely attractive, they may have a flat ass, be fat, small breasts, be too short or too tall, but there's something about their presence that captivates you.

I can never tell if this is a good sign or simply a red flag, something is telling you this woman is dangerous for you, and that she's exposing some onetis weakness in you

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Stop asking silly questions why this why that and get in the game and start getting some puzzy.

Once you start getting some actual puzzy, even from ugly old ladies, you'll stop worrying about questions like these.

 

[BaronOfHair]

They may not even be remotely attractive, they may have a flat ass, be fat, small breasts, be too short or too tall, but there's something about their presence that captivates you

Hmmm... I found that gal on The Good Fight who wasn't Rose Leslie or Cush Jumbo "cute"

Can't say I ranked Ms.Steele ahead of the aforementioned duo on my finger scale though

 

[CornbreadFed]

Stop asking silly questions why this why that and get in the game and start getting some puzzy.

Once you start getting some actual puzzy, even from ugly old ladies, you'll stop worrying about questions like these.

Nah, we all experience that brutal oneitis experience

 

[BillyPilgrim]

This is a good sign OP provided you're not thirsty. Valuing a girl's vibe/energy usually means you value her higher than the average male would, meaning you have less competition.

 

[zekko]

This is a good sign OP provided you're not thirsty. Valuing a girl's vibe/energy usually means you value her higher than the average male would, meaning you have less competition.

That's assuming your esteem of her works in your favor at all, when often it works against you.
Lately I've been thinking women are repulsed by men who value them.

 

[Bingo-Player]

That's assuming your esteem of her works in your favor at all, when often it works against you.
Lately I've been thinking women are repulsed by men who value them.

Because women are the submissive sex they tend too innately desire the feeling of being used or "owned"

I'll never forget when I was younger being on holiday in Ibiza me and a mate were randomly going around asking chicks if they had an " owner" or "did your owner let you dress like that tonight"

Now you'd think these sort of lines would cause a woman utter disgust..... but no in about 70-80% of interactions the women were genuinely intrigued and engaged with us . it was almost like the very fact these guys had the audacity to ask such a question was actually a turn on for them because we were signalling we were above them.

As men it is difficult for us to understand because we are constantly trained by the media and blue pill society to respect women

But from my experiences the best results have come from subtle disrespect and a lot of teasing , depending on the woman and her self worth sometimes even blatant disrespect can be a panty damper

Its incredible to think that speaking to a woman in a normal manner will very likely get you ghosted

but treating her like a wh0re will often get you laid more often than not

 

[zekko]

Because women are the submissive sex they tend too innately desire the feeling of being used or "owned"

Also, their hypergamous nature tends to devalue men who find them valuable. They are looking to date up, not some guy they can easily get or dazzle.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Because of the way they make you feel.

 

[BadBoy89]

Stop asking silly questions why this why that and get in the game and start getting some puzzy.

Once you start getting some actual puzzy, even from ugly old ladies, you'll stop worrying about questions like these.

Good first line.

Bad 2nd line.

You don't want anything fat, old, short hair, single mother, or tattoo. That will mess a man up. You want HOT and under 30. Even if she's slut, its ok.

 

[jhonny9546]

Lately I've been thinking women are repulsed by men who value them.

Good point, and that’s why we wonder how to build meaningful relationships with them

 

[jhonny9546]

But from my experiences the best results have come from subtle disrespect and a lot of teasing , depending on the woman and her self worth sometimes even blatant disrespect can be a panty damper

Yes, this is another truth I've noticed, something @Sega Genesis and @BeExcellent might want to discuss.

For all their, and our own, pursuit of healthy relationships, what actually hooks them and keeps them close to you is exactly what you described. (From IRL experience)

It's like "disrespect" and the fact that you consider them a "servant", are the best ingredients for a LTR.

desire the feeling of being used or "owned"

That’s another point proven true in real life.
For sure there are women who want to be owned and be a servant, but as men, does that depends on a woman's self-esteem and sense of self-worth?

So our first rationalization might tell us, we're actually dealing with a low value woman.

At the same time, if she wants to be "owned," how can she respect a beta male who *wants* to own her, while she’s thinking about another man who *doesn't* own her right now, who leaves her free and doesn't commit to a relationship with her? (High Score Theory)

Those are good points for a discussion.
I'm proud that you brought that up! @Bingo-Player

This is something actually @tesla8520 discusses here in details, and in the particular scenario when she disrespect you, we found out that the man who mark the territory, and make things to "win her back", contrary to sosuave mindset, keep the woman, for the reason we talk about here (being owned, being a servant).

 

[zekko]

Good point, and that’s why we wonder how to build meaningful relationships with them

Simply being chosen is the most successful way. That's not a high volume situation for most guys though.

 

[The Duke]

Because women are the submissive sex they tend too innately desire the feeling of being used or "owned"

I'll never forget when I was younger being on holiday in Ibiza me and a mate were randomly going around asking chicks if they had an " owner" or "did your owner let you dress like that tonight"

Now you'd think these sort of lines would cause a woman utter disgust..... but no in about 70-80% of interactions the women were genuinely intrigued and engaged with us . it was almost like the very fact these guys had the audacity to ask such a question was actually a turn on for them because we were signalling we were above them.

As men it is difficult for us to understand because we are constantly trained by the media and blue pill society to respect women

But from my experiences the best results have come from subtle disrespect and a lot of teasing , depending on the woman and her self worth sometimes even blatant disrespect can be a panty damper

Its incredible to think that speaking to a woman in a normal manner will very likely get you ghosted

but treating her like a wh0re will often get you laid more often than not

As I became more experienced with women I started becoming aware of what you pointed out. At first I was in disbelief but I knew it to be true as I witnessed it.

I've had women tell me after I ripped their azz and called them out that it was so hot how I put them in their place.

I've dumped two of them on the side of the road after they wouldn't stop biatching and they came back begging and trying harder than ever before. One of them's uber driver told me she spilled her guts out to him on the ride back home and said how I was the best guy she ever had and blah blah. This guy was begging me to keep her because she shared her feelings about me with him and he saw how much she cared and appreciated me.

I left one at a restaurant because I got tired of her complaining. She blew my phone up for two hours and I refused to answer. She had to get an uber to take her home 50 miles. She had more respect for me than ever before after that.

I've spit on women and called them my little wh0re during sex and they get turned on. I've left my hand print on her butt cheek that was still there two days later.

Its the polarity between the sexes they like. Women love to submit, but only to a man they respect and value. Its only then when they can be in their full submissive feminine role.

Disclaimer: For those of you that haven't experienced these things, do not go out and do these things and think you will turn a woman on and she will magically respect you for it. She has to be attracted to you and value what you bring to the table or doing the things I shared might cause you some major problems.

 

[KevinRyman22]

It's called Lust and the fact that you don't understand that is a real problem.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Its the polarity between the sexes they like. Women love to submit, but only to a man they respect and value. Its only then when they can be in their full submissive feminine role.

yea that's it and I think a lot of women get really really frustrated with modern men for almost being too respectful ( playing it too safe ) but the tricky thing with women is that they themselves rarely bother to make their interest obvious anymore

So men are left in a very very trick situation where you often have to make very bold decisions with women that may not care if you woke up alive the next morning

Modern women genuinely don't really seem to care wether men make a move or not ,which makes it extremely difficult as a modern man to assess wether its even worth the expense of energy and confidence to do it.

 

[Cheeky_James]

They may not even be remotely attractive, they may have a flat ass, be fat, small breasts, be too short or too tall, but there's something about their presence that captivates you.

Have to be honest, you have lost me there brother.
Did she happen to be stepping out of a Lamborghini dressed in Gucci or something?

Otherwise I do not relate at all.

you didn’t mention her face , so it is possible she has an amazing face and that’s the reason. Her facial attractiveness. I’d get it then.

Ie that wishful thinking of “ if she just lost 30kgs , and hit the gym for 2 years solid , then got a t1t job and wore high heels… she’d be amazing! “ type of deal. Yeah sure!