"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How some women can have such a strong impact on us?

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Why can't you explain how some women can have such a strong impact on you?

They may not even be remotely attractive, they may have a flat ass, be fat, small breasts, be too short or too tall, but there's something about their presence that captivates you.

I can never tell if this is a good sign or simply a red flag, something is telling you this woman is dangerous for you, and that she's exposing some onetis weakness in you
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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They may not even be remotely attractive, they may have a flat ass, be fat, small breasts, be too short or too tall, but there's something about their presence that captivates you
Hmmm... I found that gal on The Good Fight who wasn't Rose Leslie or Cush Jumbo "cute"

Can't say I ranked Ms.Steele ahead of the aforementioned duo on my finger scale though
 

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Stop asking silly questions why this why that and get in the game and start getting some puzzy.

Once you start getting some actual puzzy, even from ugly old ladies, you'll stop worrying about questions like these.
Nah, we all experience that brutal oneitis experience
 

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This is a good sign OP provided you're not thirsty. Valuing a girl's vibe/energy usually means you value her higher than the average male would, meaning you have less competition.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This is a good sign OP provided you're not thirsty. Valuing a girl's vibe/energy usually means you value her higher than the average male would, meaning you have less competition.
That's assuming your esteem of her works in your favor at all, when often it works against you.
Lately I've been thinking women are repulsed by men who value them.
 

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That's assuming your esteem of her works in your favor at all, when often it works against you.
Lately I've been thinking women are repulsed by men who value them.
Because women are the submissive sex they tend too innately desire the feeling of being used or "owned"

I'll never forget when I was younger being on holiday in Ibiza me and a mate were randomly going around asking chicks if they had an " owner" or "did your owner let you dress like that tonight"

Now you'd think these sort of lines would cause a woman utter disgust..... but no in about 70-80% of interactions the women were genuinely intrigued and engaged with us . it was almost like the very fact these guys had the audacity to ask such a question was actually a turn on for them because we were signalling we were above them.

As men it is difficult for us to understand because we are constantly trained by the media and blue pill society to respect women

But from my experiences the best results have come from subtle disrespect and a lot of teasing , depending on the woman and her self worth sometimes even blatant disrespect can be a panty damper

Its incredible to think that speaking to a woman in a normal manner will very likely get you ghosted

but treating her like a wh0re will often get you laid more often than not :rofl:
 

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Because women are the submissive sex they tend too innately desire the feeling of being used or "owned"
Also, their hypergamous nature tends to devalue men who find them valuable. They are looking to date up, not some guy they can easily get or dazzle.
 
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