"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How some women can have such a strong impact on us?

jhonny9546

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Why can't you explain how some women can have such a strong impact on you?

They may not even be remotely attractive, they may have a flat ass, be fat, small breasts, be too short or too tall, but there's something about their presence that captivates you.

I can never tell if this is a good sign or simply a red flag, something is telling you this woman is dangerous for you, and that she's exposing some onetis weakness in you
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BaronOfHair

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They may not even be remotely attractive, they may have a flat ass, be fat, small breasts, be too short or too tall, but there's something about their presence that captivates you
Hmmm... I found that gal on The Good Fight who wasn't Rose Leslie or Cush Jumbo "cute"

Can't say I ranked Ms.Steele ahead of the aforementioned duo on my finger scale though
 

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Stop asking silly questions why this why that and get in the game and start getting some puzzy.

Once you start getting some actual puzzy, even from ugly old ladies, you'll stop worrying about questions like these.
Nah, we all experience that brutal oneitis experience
 

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This is a good sign OP provided you're not thirsty. Valuing a girl's vibe/energy usually means you value her higher than the average male would, meaning you have less competition.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is a good sign OP provided you're not thirsty. Valuing a girl's vibe/energy usually means you value her higher than the average male would, meaning you have less competition.
That's assuming your esteem of her works in your favor at all, when often it works against you.
Lately I've been thinking women are repulsed by men who value them.
 
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