"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How some women can have such a strong impact on us?

jhonny9546

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Why can't you explain how some women can have such a strong impact on you?

They may not even be remotely attractive, they may have a flat ass, be fat, small breasts, be too short or too tall, but there's something about their presence that captivates you.

I can never tell if this is a good sign or simply a red flag, something is telling you this woman is dangerous for you, and that she's exposing some onetis weakness in you
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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They may not even be remotely attractive, they may have a flat ass, be fat, small breasts, be too short or too tall, but there's something about their presence that captivates you
Hmmm... I found that gal on The Good Fight who wasn't Rose Leslie or Cush Jumbo "cute"

Can't say I ranked Ms.Steele ahead of the aforementioned duo on my finger scale though
 

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Stop asking silly questions why this why that and get in the game and start getting some puzzy.

Once you start getting some actual puzzy, even from ugly old ladies, you'll stop worrying about questions like these.
Nah, we all experience that brutal oneitis experience
 

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This is a good sign OP provided you're not thirsty. Valuing a girl's vibe/energy usually means you value her higher than the average male would, meaning you have less competition.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This is a good sign OP provided you're not thirsty. Valuing a girl's vibe/energy usually means you value her higher than the average male would, meaning you have less competition.
That's assuming your esteem of her works in your favor at all, when often it works against you.
Lately I've been thinking women are repulsed by men who value them.
 

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That's assuming your esteem of her works in your favor at all, when often it works against you.
Lately I've been thinking women are repulsed by men who value them.
Because women are the submissive sex they tend too innately desire the feeling of being used or "owned"

I'll never forget when I was younger being on holiday in Ibiza me and a mate were randomly going around asking chicks if they had an " owner" or "did your owner let you dress like that tonight"

Now you'd think these sort of lines would cause a woman utter disgust..... but no in about 70-80% of interactions the women were genuinely intrigued and engaged with us . it was almost like the very fact these guys had the audacity to ask such a question was actually a turn on for them because we were signalling we were above them.

As men it is difficult for us to understand because we are constantly trained by the media and blue pill society to respect women

But from my experiences the best results have come from subtle disrespect and a lot of teasing , depending on the woman and her self worth sometimes even blatant disrespect can be a panty damper

Its incredible to think that speaking to a woman in a normal manner will very likely get you ghosted

but treating her like a wh0re will often get you laid more often than not :rofl:
 

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Because women are the submissive sex they tend too innately desire the feeling of being used or "owned"
Also, their hypergamous nature tends to devalue men who find them valuable. They are looking to date up, not some guy they can easily get or dazzle.
 
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