How some women can have such a strong impact on us?

[jhonny9546]

Why can't you explain how some women can have such a strong impact on you?

They may not even be remotely attractive, they may have a flat ass, be fat, small breasts, be too short or too tall, but there's something about their presence that captivates you.

I can never tell if this is a good sign or simply a red flag, something is telling you this woman is dangerous for you, and that she's exposing some onetis weakness in you

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Stop asking silly questions why this why that and get in the game and start getting some puzzy.

Once you start getting some actual puzzy, even from ugly old ladies, you'll stop worrying about questions like these.

 

[BaronOfHair]

They may not even be remotely attractive, they may have a flat ass, be fat, small breasts, be too short or too tall, but there's something about their presence that captivates you

Hmmm... I found that gal on The Good Fight who wasn't Rose Leslie or Cush Jumbo "cute"

Can't say I ranked Ms.Steele ahead of the aforementioned duo on my finger scale though

 

[CornbreadFed]

Stop asking silly questions why this why that and get in the game and start getting some puzzy.

Once you start getting some actual puzzy, even from ugly old ladies, you'll stop worrying about questions like these.

Nah, we all experience that brutal oneitis experience

 

[BillyPilgrim]

This is a good sign OP provided you're not thirsty. Valuing a girl's vibe/energy usually means you value her higher than the average male would, meaning you have less competition.

 

[zekko]

This is a good sign OP provided you're not thirsty. Valuing a girl's vibe/energy usually means you value her higher than the average male would, meaning you have less competition.

That's assuming your esteem of her works in your favor at all, when often it works against you.
Lately I've been thinking women are repulsed by men who value them.

 

[Bingo-Player]

That's assuming your esteem of her works in your favor at all, when often it works against you.
Lately I've been thinking women are repulsed by men who value them.

Because women are the submissive sex they tend too innately desire the feeling of being used or "owned"

I'll never forget when I was younger being on holiday in Ibiza me and a mate were randomly going around asking chicks if they had an " owner" or "did your owner let you dress like that tonight"

Now you'd think these sort of lines would cause a woman utter disgust..... but no in about 70-80% of interactions the women were genuinely intrigued and engaged with us . it was almost like the very fact these guys had the audacity to ask such a question was actually a turn on for them because we were signalling we were above them.

As men it is difficult for us to understand because we are constantly trained by the media and blue pill society to respect women

But from my experiences the best results have come from subtle disrespect and a lot of teasing , depending on the woman and her self worth sometimes even blatant disrespect can be a panty damper

Its incredible to think that speaking to a woman in a normal manner will very likely get you ghosted

but treating her like a wh0re will often get you laid more often than not

 

[zekko]

Because women are the submissive sex they tend too innately desire the feeling of being used or "owned"

Also, their hypergamous nature tends to devalue men who find them valuable. They are looking to date up, not some guy they can easily get or dazzle.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Because of the way they make you feel.

 

[BadBoy89]

Stop asking silly questions why this why that and get in the game and start getting some puzzy.

Once you start getting some actual puzzy, even from ugly old ladies, you'll stop worrying about questions like these.

Good first line.

Bad 2nd line.

You don't want anything fat, old, short hair, single mother, or tattoo. That will mess a man up. You want HOT and under 30. Even if she's slut, its ok.

 

[jhonny9546]

Lately I've been thinking women are repulsed by men who value them.

Good point, and that’s why we wonder how to build meaningful relationships with them

 

[jhonny9546]

But from my experiences the best results have come from subtle disrespect and a lot of teasing , depending on the woman and her self worth sometimes even blatant disrespect can be a panty damper

Yes, this is another truth I've noticed, something @Sega Genesis and @BeExcellent might want to discuss.

For all their, and our own, pursuit of healthy relationships, what actually hooks them and keeps them close to you is exactly what you described. (From IRL experience)

It's like "disrespect" and the fact that you consider them a "servant", are the best ingredients for a LTR.

desire the feeling of being used or "owned"

That’s another point proven true in real life.
For sure there are women who want to be owned and be a servant, but as men, does that depends on a woman's self-esteem and sense of self-worth?

So our first rationalization might tell us, we're actually dealing with a low value woman.

At the same time, if she wants to be "owned," how can she respect a beta male who *wants* to own her, while she’s thinking about another man who *doesn't* own her right now, who leaves her free and doesn't commit to a relationship with her? (High Score Theory)

Those are good points for a discussion.
I'm proud that you brought that up! @Bingo-Player

This is something actually @tesla8520 discusses here in details, and in the particular scenario when she disrespect you, we found out that the man who mark the territory, and make things to "win her back", contrary to sosuave mindset, keep the woman, for the reason we talk about here (being owned, being a servant).