“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

How often do you consume pornography?

Thread starter BorisBeef
Start date Apr 2, 2023
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habits health instant gratification

BorisBeef

Don Juan

#1

Personal development gurus talk about the negative effects of pornography on the brain. The fight against instant gratification and how damaging inadequate dopamine levels can be to our health.
I have been changing several habits, I have improved my sleep hygiene a little, I have reduced the anxiety that I suffer by limiting my caffeine consumption, for example.
The problem is that these last few weeks I'm more excited than usual. Therefore I am masturbating more frequently. A normal level I would say, once or twice every other day (long ago I could go months without masturbating and absolutely nothing happened)
That's why my query, do you consume pornography? How often?
Obviously it's ALWAYS going to be better to have sex with real women, I get that.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

devilkingx2

Master Don Juan

#2

I'm considering buying a second monitor for my PC so I can have porn open 24/7

corrector

Master Don Juan

#3

Do escort ads count as porn or not?

M

Murk

Master Don Juan

#4

corrector said:
Do escort ads count as porn or not?

Do you call them up and jerk off while speaking to them or just look at the pics?

SW15

Master Don Juan

#5

BorisBeef said:
That's why my query, do you consume pornography? How often?

I do not consume phonography. I have been practicing "no porn and no fap" for 5+ years.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

corrector

Master Don Juan

#6

Murk said:
Do you call them up and jerk off while speaking to them or just look at the pics?

Just look at the pics. Some of the ads have videos of them which includes voice.

However, sometimes the ads have the address of the escorts and I might drive around the incall location, look at the door, and the camera above the door and drive off (never leave the car) and go back home and look at the pics again. This is just done like once in a blue moon but it makes the pics look more real.

Last edited: Apr 3, 2023

BorisBeef

Don Juan

#7

SW15 said:
I do not consume phonography. I have been practicing "no porn and no fap" for 5+ years.

That's what I call discipline

Billtx49

Master Don Juan

#8

corrector said:
However, sometimes the ads have the address of the escorts and I might drive around the incall location, look at the door, and the camera above the door and drive off (never leave the car) and go back home and look at the pics again. This is just done like once in a blue moon but it makes the pics look more real.

I believe that’s close to qualifying as jerk stalker status there …

corrector

Master Don Juan

#9

Billtx49 said:
I believe that’s close to qualifying as jerk stalker status there …

They put the address on the ad and it's a walk-in. It's up to anyone if they want to walk-in or not. What is worst is walking in, looking at the selection of women, telling them that the girl you want is not there or make up some excuse and leave the place. It's an open Spanish brothel.

Rainman4707

Master Don Juan

#10

Never

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

corrector

Master Don Juan

#11

Nobody has yet come with an answer as to whether escort pics count as porn or not.

BorisBeef

Don Juan

#12

corrector said:
Nobody has yet come with an answer as to whether escort pics count as porn or not.

those unknowns don't let me sleep

corrector

Master Don Juan

#13

stringpuller said:
Yes @corrector they do lol

I love the porn threads. Humans are literally porn.

Yeah, mom thinks I should spend the time praying for a real women rather than fap to escort ads. So that is what I will do.

M

Murk

Master Don Juan

#14

corrector said:
Just look at the pics. Some of the ads have videos of them which includes voice.

However, sometimes the ads have the address of the escorts and I might drive around the incall location, look at the door, and the camera above the door and drive off (never leave the car) and go back home and look at the pics again. This is just done like once in a blue moon but it makes the pics look more real.

If I were you, I'd start calling these girls up and pushing buttons on what they will or won't do for money, much more satisfying nut. If they are cool go and see them. Those days are long behind me now. I would do this while simultaneously seeing these girls, walking if they were ugly, smashing if they looked good. I'm talking 10+ years ago. It served it's purpose and got me out of a rut. I did smash a canadian in mexico and a latina in miami last year, but my escorting days are mainly done.

corrector

Master Don Juan

#15

Murk said:
If I were you, I'd start calling these girls up and pushing buttons on what they will or won't do for money, much more satisfying nut. If they are cool go and see them. Those days are long behind me now. I would do this while simultaneously seeing these girls, walking if they were ugly, smashing if they looked good. I'm talking 10+ years ago. It served it's purpose and got me out of a rut. I did smash a canadian in mexico and a latina in miami last year, but my escorting days are mainly done.

Ok, I saw two women in 2014, so I have some experience. I am so thirsty that any physical interaction interaction with a fully nude but decently looking woman would be worth the price of admission, including a long bear hug where I am squeezing her a@@ and kissing her face and smelling and playing with her hair. They usually lead sexually if shy.

Now, are escort pics porn or not? For purposes ofnthis

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

M

Murk

Master Don Juan

#16

corrector said:
Ok, I saw two women in 2014, so I have some experience. I am so thirsty that any physical interaction interaction with a fully nude but decently looking woman would be worth the price of admission, including a long bear hug where I am squeezing her a@@ and kissing her face and smelling and playing with her hair. They usually lead sexually if shy.

Now, are escort pics porn or not? For purposes ofnthis

What does it matter? You're thirsty for a hot female, so go get one, if you have to purchase it or not you need to get that thirst in check. You can't go pursuing women with this innate desperation. Go secure the vag then proceed with clarity. All the while losing weight in the process as ultimately that's what's holding you back.

Plinco

Master Don Juan

#17

Pornography conditions you to see women as objects instead of human beings. It also disrupts your neurochemical cycles. I very strongly advise you to quit.

Plinco

Master Don Juan

#18

corrector said:
Nobody has yet come with an answer as to whether escort pics count as porn or not.

If escort ads feature naked women, then I'd classify them as porn

corrector

Master Don Juan

#19

Plinco said:
If escort ads feature naked women, then I'd classify them as porn

They are not naked. The odd ad might be but the vast majority are not.

However, the ad description and what services she offers creates the fantasy. For example, you can have a face pic but if she offers no condom deep throat and can swallow then is the face pic porn?

Billtx49

Master Don Juan

#20

corrector said:
Nobody has yet come with an answer as to whether escort pics count as porn or not.

If you get hard while viewing and think you might prematurely ejaculate before you can get to the astro glide, it’s porn for you.

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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