"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How often do you consume pornography?

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Personal development gurus talk about the negative effects of pornography on the brain. The fight against instant gratification and how damaging inadequate dopamine levels can be to our health.
I have been changing several habits, I have improved my sleep hygiene a little, I have reduced the anxiety that I suffer by limiting my caffeine consumption, for example.
The problem is that these last few weeks I'm more excited than usual. Therefore I am masturbating more frequently. A normal level I would say, once or twice every other day (long ago I could go months without masturbating and absolutely nothing happened)
That's why my query, do you consume pornography? How often?
Obviously it's ALWAYS going to be better to have sex with real women, I get that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you call them up and jerk off while speaking to them or just look at the pics?
Just look at the pics. Some of the ads have videos of them which includes voice.

However, sometimes the ads have the address of the escorts and I might drive around the incall location, look at the door, and the camera above the door and drive off (never leave the car) and go back home and look at the pics again. This is just done like once in a blue moon but it makes the pics look more real.
 
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However, sometimes the ads have the address of the escorts and I might drive around the incall location, look at the door, and the camera above the door and drive off (never leave the car) and go back home and look at the pics again. This is just done like once in a blue moon but it makes the pics look more real.
I believe that’s close to qualifying as jerk stalker status there …
 

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I believe that’s close to qualifying as jerk stalker status there …
They put the address on the ad and it's a walk-in. It's up to anyone if they want to walk-in or not. What is worst is walking in, looking at the selection of women, telling them that the girl you want is not there or make up some excuse and leave the place. It's an open Spanish brothel.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nobody has yet come with an answer as to whether escort pics count as porn or not.
 

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Just look at the pics. Some of the ads have videos of them which includes voice.

However, sometimes the ads have the address of the escorts and I might drive around the incall location, look at the door, and the camera above the door and drive off (never leave the car) and go back home and look at the pics again. This is just done like once in a blue moon but it makes the pics look more real.
If I were you, I'd start calling these girls up and pushing buttons on what they will or won't do for money, much more satisfying nut. If they are cool go and see them. Those days are long behind me now. I would do this while simultaneously seeing these girls, walking if they were ugly, smashing if they looked good. I'm talking 10+ years ago. It served it's purpose and got me out of a rut. I did smash a canadian in mexico and a latina in miami last year, but my escorting days are mainly done.
 

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If I were you, I'd start calling these girls up and pushing buttons on what they will or won't do for money, much more satisfying nut. If they are cool go and see them. Those days are long behind me now. I would do this while simultaneously seeing these girls, walking if they were ugly, smashing if they looked good. I'm talking 10+ years ago. It served it's purpose and got me out of a rut. I did smash a canadian in mexico and a latina in miami last year, but my escorting days are mainly done.
Ok, I saw two women in 2014, so I have some experience. I am so thirsty that any physical interaction interaction with a fully nude but decently looking woman would be worth the price of admission, including a long bear hug where I am squeezing her a@@ and kissing her face and smelling and playing with her hair. They usually lead sexually if shy.

Now, are escort pics porn or not? For purposes ofnthis
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok, I saw two women in 2014, so I have some experience. I am so thirsty that any physical interaction interaction with a fully nude but decently looking woman would be worth the price of admission, including a long bear hug where I am squeezing her a@@ and kissing her face and smelling and playing with her hair. They usually lead sexually if shy.

Now, are escort pics porn or not? For purposes ofnthis
What does it matter? You're thirsty for a hot female, so go get one, if you have to purchase it or not you need to get that thirst in check. You can't go pursuing women with this innate desperation. Go secure the vag then proceed with clarity. All the while losing weight in the process as ultimately that's what's holding you back.
 

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Pornography conditions you to see women as objects instead of human beings. It also disrupts your neurochemical cycles. I very strongly advise you to quit.
 

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Nobody has yet come with an answer as to whether escort pics count as porn or not.
If escort ads feature naked women, then I'd classify them as porn
 

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If escort ads feature naked women, then I'd classify them as porn
They are not naked. The odd ad might be but the vast majority are not.

However, the ad description and what services she offers creates the fantasy. For example, you can have a face pic but if she offers no condom deep throat and can swallow then is the face pic porn?
 

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Nobody has yet come with an answer as to whether escort pics count as porn or not.
If you get hard while viewing and think you might prematurely ejaculate before you can get to the astro glide, it’s porn for you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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