"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How often do you consume pornography?

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Personal development gurus talk about the negative effects of pornography on the brain. The fight against instant gratification and how damaging inadequate dopamine levels can be to our health.
I have been changing several habits, I have improved my sleep hygiene a little, I have reduced the anxiety that I suffer by limiting my caffeine consumption, for example.
The problem is that these last few weeks I'm more excited than usual. Therefore I am masturbating more frequently. A normal level I would say, once or twice every other day (long ago I could go months without masturbating and absolutely nothing happened)
That's why my query, do you consume pornography? How often?
Obviously it's ALWAYS going to be better to have sex with real women, I get that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Murk said:
Do you call them up and jerk off while speaking to them or just look at the pics?
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Just look at the pics. Some of the ads have videos of them which includes voice.

However, sometimes the ads have the address of the escorts and I might drive around the incall location, look at the door, and the camera above the door and drive off (never leave the car) and go back home and look at the pics again. This is just done like once in a blue moon but it makes the pics look more real.
 
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However, sometimes the ads have the address of the escorts and I might drive around the incall location, look at the door, and the camera above the door and drive off (never leave the car) and go back home and look at the pics again. This is just done like once in a blue moon but it makes the pics look more real.
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I believe that’s close to qualifying as jerk stalker status there …
 
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I believe that’s close to qualifying as jerk stalker status there …
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They put the address on the ad and it's a walk-in. It's up to anyone if they want to walk-in or not. What is worst is walking in, looking at the selection of women, telling them that the girl you want is not there or make up some excuse and leave the place. It's an open Spanish brothel.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nobody has yet come with an answer as to whether escort pics count as porn or not.
 
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corrector said:
Just look at the pics. Some of the ads have videos of them which includes voice.

However, sometimes the ads have the address of the escorts and I might drive around the incall location, look at the door, and the camera above the door and drive off (never leave the car) and go back home and look at the pics again. This is just done like once in a blue moon but it makes the pics look more real.
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If I were you, I'd start calling these girls up and pushing buttons on what they will or won't do for money, much more satisfying nut. If they are cool go and see them. Those days are long behind me now. I would do this while simultaneously seeing these girls, walking if they were ugly, smashing if they looked good. I'm talking 10+ years ago. It served it's purpose and got me out of a rut. I did smash a canadian in mexico and a latina in miami last year, but my escorting days are mainly done.
 
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Murk said:
If I were you, I'd start calling these girls up and pushing buttons on what they will or won't do for money, much more satisfying nut. If they are cool go and see them. Those days are long behind me now. I would do this while simultaneously seeing these girls, walking if they were ugly, smashing if they looked good. I'm talking 10+ years ago. It served it's purpose and got me out of a rut. I did smash a canadian in mexico and a latina in miami last year, but my escorting days are mainly done.
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Ok, I saw two women in 2014, so I have some experience. I am so thirsty that any physical interaction interaction with a fully nude but decently looking woman would be worth the price of admission, including a long bear hug where I am squeezing her a@@ and kissing her face and smelling and playing with her hair. They usually lead sexually if shy.

Now, are escort pics porn or not? For purposes ofnthis
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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corrector said:
Ok, I saw two women in 2014, so I have some experience. I am so thirsty that any physical interaction interaction with a fully nude but decently looking woman would be worth the price of admission, including a long bear hug where I am squeezing her a@@ and kissing her face and smelling and playing with her hair. They usually lead sexually if shy.

Now, are escort pics porn or not? For purposes ofnthis
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What does it matter? You're thirsty for a hot female, so go get one, if you have to purchase it or not you need to get that thirst in check. You can't go pursuing women with this innate desperation. Go secure the vag then proceed with clarity. All the while losing weight in the process as ultimately that's what's holding you back.
 
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Pornography conditions you to see women as objects instead of human beings. It also disrupts your neurochemical cycles. I very strongly advise you to quit.
 
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corrector said:
Nobody has yet come with an answer as to whether escort pics count as porn or not.
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If escort ads feature naked women, then I'd classify them as porn
 
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If escort ads feature naked women, then I'd classify them as porn
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They are not naked. The odd ad might be but the vast majority are not.

However, the ad description and what services she offers creates the fantasy. For example, you can have a face pic but if she offers no condom deep throat and can swallow then is the face pic porn?
 
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corrector said:
Nobody has yet come with an answer as to whether escort pics count as porn or not.
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If you get hard while viewing and think you might prematurely ejaculate before you can get to the astro glide, it’s porn for you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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