"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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  1. BorisBeef

    How often do you consume pornography?

    Personal development gurus talk about the negative effects of pornography on the brain. The fight against instant gratification and how damaging inadequate dopamine levels can be to our health. I have been changing several habits, I have improved my sleep hygiene a little, I have reduced the...
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