SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
As soon as I am having fun with the ladies. It seems like I am constantly being dragged away by the guys somehow meaning they don't like what they see in me. How can I overcome that?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How Do I Overcome the Haters?
- Thread starter SIXPAKGQ
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MindOverMatter
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Ignore them. If a friend comes up to you, and interrupts you while you're talking to the girl, keep looking her directly in the eyes (do not notice your friend at all), smile at her, and say "I don't even know this guy". By then your friend should be embarassed and tooled enough to take the hint and leave you alone. If not, stop bringing him along.
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
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i use to do that. i think thats rude. i want to atleast say hi....and i don't think women like that either, it brings some kind of desperation in the guy....
i use to do that. i think thats rude. i want to atleast say hi....and i don't think women like that either, it brings some kind of desperation in the guy....
MindOverMatter
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tell you what. next time a friend c0ckblocks you, field test this, and post your results here. i've had nothing but success with this method.
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
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ive had guys tell me "sup player" etc......front of ladies and when i am alone. i dont like that s**t.
ive had guys tell me "sup player" etc......front of ladies and when i am alone. i dont like that s**t.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Player_Supreme
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welcome to the club. since I've been here on this site I've met quite a few with a PHD. Player Hating Degree.
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
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MikeYikes122
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yea well im sorry to inform you all, but i myself have a PHD...
(a pretty huge dik)
(a pretty huge dik)
biker_gixxer
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Would you rather them say 'sup wuss bag'? LOL There are probably a bunch of guys our there who wish they could be referred to as a 'player'. Chill bro, it's all good...Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
ive had guys tell me "sup player" etc......front of ladies and when i am alone. i dont like that s**t.
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
biker
i do not want to get labelled a player. nor i want to become one. also women don't like that either.
i do not want to get labelled a player. nor i want to become one. also women don't like that either.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
JT47319
Master Don Juan
Re: biker
Sure they do. How the fuck do you think they go to when they're horny?Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
i do not want to get labelled a player. nor i want to become one. also women don't like that either.
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
jt
these girls tend to be playettes also, so they tend to mingle. I am talking about non playettes a.k.a nice girls
these girls tend to be playettes also, so they tend to mingle. I am talking about non playettes a.k.a nice girls
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Re: biker
Women pretend that they don't like players to avoid being labeled a slut.
And no, it's not a bad thing to be screwing 50 woman a week. In fact, it's quite healthy and somewhat relaxing. You should try it some time.
Again a prime example of momma's boy AFC style brainwashing...Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
i do not want to get labelled a player. nor i want to become one. also women don't like that either.
Women pretend that they don't like players to avoid being labeled a slut.
And no, it's not a bad thing to be screwing 50 woman a week. In fact, it's quite healthy and somewhat relaxing. You should try it some time.
HAHA, wait a minute. The guys drag YOU off? Wow man, that is a sight to see. If a guy tries to drag you off, tell him "hands off, I'll talk to you later man."Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
As soon as I am having fun with the ladies. It seems like I am constantly being dragged away by the guys somehow meaning they don't like what they see in me. How can I overcome that?
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
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nothing physical, just verbal...
nothing physical, just verbal...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.