SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
As soon as I am having fun with the ladies. It seems like I am constantly being dragged away by the guys somehow meaning they don't like what they see in me. How can I overcome that?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How Do I Overcome the Haters?
- Thread starter SIXPAKGQ
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MindOverMatter
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Ignore them. If a friend comes up to you, and interrupts you while you're talking to the girl, keep looking her directly in the eyes (do not notice your friend at all), smile at her, and say "I don't even know this guy". By then your friend should be embarassed and tooled enough to take the hint and leave you alone. If not, stop bringing him along.
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
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i use to do that. i think thats rude. i want to atleast say hi....and i don't think women like that either, it brings some kind of desperation in the guy....
i use to do that. i think thats rude. i want to atleast say hi....and i don't think women like that either, it brings some kind of desperation in the guy....
MindOverMatter
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tell you what. next time a friend c0ckblocks you, field test this, and post your results here. i've had nothing but success with this method.
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
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ive had guys tell me "sup player" etc......front of ladies and when i am alone. i dont like that s**t.
ive had guys tell me "sup player" etc......front of ladies and when i am alone. i dont like that s**t.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Player_Supreme
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welcome to the club. since I've been here on this site I've met quite a few with a PHD. Player Hating Degree.
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
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MikeYikes122
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yea well im sorry to inform you all, but i myself have a PHD...
(a pretty huge dik)
(a pretty huge dik)
biker_gixxer
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Re: ...
Would you rather them say 'sup wuss bag'? LOL There are probably a bunch of guys our there who wish they could be referred to as a 'player'. Chill bro, it's all good...Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
ive had guys tell me "sup player" etc......front of ladies and when i am alone. i dont like that s**t.
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
biker
i do not want to get labelled a player. nor i want to become one. also women don't like that either.
i do not want to get labelled a player. nor i want to become one. also women don't like that either.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
JT47319
Master Don Juan
Re: biker
Sure they do. How the fuck do you think they go to when they're horny?Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
i do not want to get labelled a player. nor i want to become one. also women don't like that either.
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
jt
these girls tend to be playettes also, so they tend to mingle. I am talking about non playettes a.k.a nice girls
these girls tend to be playettes also, so they tend to mingle. I am talking about non playettes a.k.a nice girls
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Re: biker
Women pretend that they don't like players to avoid being labeled a slut.
And no, it's not a bad thing to be screwing 50 woman a week. In fact, it's quite healthy and somewhat relaxing. You should try it some time.
Again a prime example of momma's boy AFC style brainwashing...Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
i do not want to get labelled a player. nor i want to become one. also women don't like that either.
Women pretend that they don't like players to avoid being labeled a slut.
And no, it's not a bad thing to be screwing 50 woman a week. In fact, it's quite healthy and somewhat relaxing. You should try it some time.
HAHA, wait a minute. The guys drag YOU off? Wow man, that is a sight to see. If a guy tries to drag you off, tell him "hands off, I'll talk to you later man."Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
As soon as I am having fun with the ladies. It seems like I am constantly being dragged away by the guys somehow meaning they don't like what they see in me. How can I overcome that?
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
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nothing physical, just verbal...
nothing physical, just verbal...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.