SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
As soon as I am having fun with the ladies. It seems like I am constantly being dragged away by the guys somehow meaning they don't like what they see in me. How can I overcome that?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How Do I Overcome the Haters?
- Thread starter SIXPAKGQ
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MindOverMatter
Master Don Juan
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Ignore them. If a friend comes up to you, and interrupts you while you're talking to the girl, keep looking her directly in the eyes (do not notice your friend at all), smile at her, and say "I don't even know this guy". By then your friend should be embarassed and tooled enough to take the hint and leave you alone. If not, stop bringing him along.
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
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i use to do that. i think thats rude. i want to atleast say hi....and i don't think women like that either, it brings some kind of desperation in the guy....
i use to do that. i think thats rude. i want to atleast say hi....and i don't think women like that either, it brings some kind of desperation in the guy....
MindOverMatter
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tell you what. next time a friend c0ckblocks you, field test this, and post your results here. i've had nothing but success with this method.
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
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ive had guys tell me "sup player" etc......front of ladies and when i am alone. i dont like that s**t.
ive had guys tell me "sup player" etc......front of ladies and when i am alone. i dont like that s**t.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Player_Supreme
Banned
welcome to the club. since I've been here on this site I've met quite a few with a PHD. Player Hating Degree.
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
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MikeYikes122
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yea well im sorry to inform you all, but i myself have a PHD...
(a pretty huge dik)
(a pretty huge dik)
biker_gixxer
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Re: ...
Would you rather them say 'sup wuss bag'? LOL There are probably a bunch of guys our there who wish they could be referred to as a 'player'. Chill bro, it's all good...Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
ive had guys tell me "sup player" etc......front of ladies and when i am alone. i dont like that s**t.
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
biker
i do not want to get labelled a player. nor i want to become one. also women don't like that either.
i do not want to get labelled a player. nor i want to become one. also women don't like that either.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
JT47319
Master Don Juan
Re: biker
Sure they do. How the fuck do you think they go to when they're horny?Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
i do not want to get labelled a player. nor i want to become one. also women don't like that either.
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
jt
these girls tend to be playettes also, so they tend to mingle. I am talking about non playettes a.k.a nice girls
these girls tend to be playettes also, so they tend to mingle. I am talking about non playettes a.k.a nice girls
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Re: biker
Women pretend that they don't like players to avoid being labeled a slut.
And no, it's not a bad thing to be screwing 50 woman a week. In fact, it's quite healthy and somewhat relaxing. You should try it some time.
Again a prime example of momma's boy AFC style brainwashing...Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
i do not want to get labelled a player. nor i want to become one. also women don't like that either.
Women pretend that they don't like players to avoid being labeled a slut.
And no, it's not a bad thing to be screwing 50 woman a week. In fact, it's quite healthy and somewhat relaxing. You should try it some time.
HAHA, wait a minute. The guys drag YOU off? Wow man, that is a sight to see. If a guy tries to drag you off, tell him "hands off, I'll talk to you later man."Originally posted by SIXPAKGQ
As soon as I am having fun with the ladies. It seems like I am constantly being dragged away by the guys somehow meaning they don't like what they see in me. How can I overcome that?
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
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nothing physical, just verbal...
nothing physical, just verbal...
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.