"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I literally have the reverse issue of being a minuteman and yes it sounds like a good problem to have but it isn't. It can take me a minimum of 3 sexual occasions to finally finish with the same women. Even after I finish, it can still be inconsistent and go on for too long. Usually If I don't finish in the first time then it's usually no big deal, but usually girls start complaining after the second time. I also fap literally once a week and I've been able to climax sometimes after fapping, so idk, if that's even related.

Please help!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I literally have the reverse issue of being a minuteman and yes it sounds like a good problem to have but it isn't. It can take me a minimum of 3 sexual occasions to finally finish with the same women. Even after I finish, it can still be inconsistent and go on for too long. Usually If I don't finish in the first time then it's usually no big deal, but usually girls start complaining after the second time. I also fap literally once a week and I've been able to climax sometimes after fapping, so idk, if that's even related.

Please help!
Yeah I am the same...I don't view it as an issue, I want to fvck them senseless and they seem to love it so I am not sure why you view it as an issue.
 

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Play a fantasy in your head. Use another girl if you have to, lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I literally have the reverse issue of being a minuteman and yes it sounds like a good problem to have but it isn't. It can take me a minimum of 3 sexual occasions to finally finish with the same women. Even after I finish, it can still be inconsistent and go on for too long. Usually If I don't finish in the first time then it's usually no big deal, but usually girls start complaining after the second time. I also fap literally once a week and I've been able to climax sometimes after fapping, so idk, if that's even related.

Please help!
Read the book Love and Orgasm by Alexander Lowen. Your problem is mental.
 
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Start having sex with girls u actually find attractive instead of landwhales from Tinder.
No jokes aside, during my down phase and to end myself imposed dry spell, I had a sex with a chubby girl and I finished the first time :(
 

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Hi OP. I have the same problem. What has recently worked for me is I start with a condom; If I dont kum after a while, the condom comes off.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Start banging younger, hotter chicks. I knew a guy that was 54 banging a 16 year old, and he said it did wonders for him.
 

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Hi Jake,
Yes I have the same problem,you are probably burning the candle both ends,yes
Porn Video clips help but often in order to keep my prostate healthy I get her to help
masturbate,quite enjoyable.
 
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