"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I literally have the reverse issue of being a minuteman and yes it sounds like a good problem to have but it isn't. It can take me a minimum of 3 sexual occasions to finally finish with the same women. Even after I finish, it can still be inconsistent and go on for too long. Usually If I don't finish in the first time then it's usually no big deal, but usually girls start complaining after the second time. I also fap literally once a week and I've been able to climax sometimes after fapping, so idk, if that's even related.

Please help!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I literally have the reverse issue of being a minuteman and yes it sounds like a good problem to have but it isn't. It can take me a minimum of 3 sexual occasions to finally finish with the same women. Even after I finish, it can still be inconsistent and go on for too long. Usually If I don't finish in the first time then it's usually no big deal, but usually girls start complaining after the second time. I also fap literally once a week and I've been able to climax sometimes after fapping, so idk, if that's even related.

Please help!
Yeah I am the same...I don't view it as an issue, I want to fvck them senseless and they seem to love it so I am not sure why you view it as an issue.
 

BillyPilgrim

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Play a fantasy in your head. Use another girl if you have to, lol.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I literally have the reverse issue of being a minuteman and yes it sounds like a good problem to have but it isn't. It can take me a minimum of 3 sexual occasions to finally finish with the same women. Even after I finish, it can still be inconsistent and go on for too long. Usually If I don't finish in the first time then it's usually no big deal, but usually girls start complaining after the second time. I also fap literally once a week and I've been able to climax sometimes after fapping, so idk, if that's even related.

Please help!
Read the book Love and Orgasm by Alexander Lowen. Your problem is mental.
 
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Start having sex with girls u actually find attractive instead of landwhales from Tinder.
No jokes aside, during my down phase and to end myself imposed dry spell, I had a sex with a chubby girl and I finished the first time :(
 

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Hi OP. I have the same problem. What has recently worked for me is I start with a condom; If I dont kum after a while, the condom comes off.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Start banging younger, hotter chicks. I knew a guy that was 54 banging a 16 year old, and he said it did wonders for him.
 

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Hi Jake,
Yes I have the same problem,you are probably burning the candle both ends,yes
Porn Video clips help but often in order to keep my prostate healthy I get her to help
masturbate,quite enjoyable.
 
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