"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I literally have the reverse issue of being a minuteman and yes it sounds like a good problem to have but it isn't. It can take me a minimum of 3 sexual occasions to finally finish with the same women. Even after I finish, it can still be inconsistent and go on for too long. Usually If I don't finish in the first time then it's usually no big deal, but usually girls start complaining after the second time. I also fap literally once a week and I've been able to climax sometimes after fapping, so idk, if that's even related.

Please help!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I literally have the reverse issue of being a minuteman and yes it sounds like a good problem to have but it isn't. It can take me a minimum of 3 sexual occasions to finally finish with the same women. Even after I finish, it can still be inconsistent and go on for too long. Usually If I don't finish in the first time then it's usually no big deal, but usually girls start complaining after the second time. I also fap literally once a week and I've been able to climax sometimes after fapping, so idk, if that's even related.

Please help!
Yeah I am the same...I don't view it as an issue, I want to fvck them senseless and they seem to love it so I am not sure why you view it as an issue.
 

BillyPilgrim

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Play a fantasy in your head. Use another girl if you have to, lol.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I literally have the reverse issue of being a minuteman and yes it sounds like a good problem to have but it isn't. It can take me a minimum of 3 sexual occasions to finally finish with the same women. Even after I finish, it can still be inconsistent and go on for too long. Usually If I don't finish in the first time then it's usually no big deal, but usually girls start complaining after the second time. I also fap literally once a week and I've been able to climax sometimes after fapping, so idk, if that's even related.

Please help!
Read the book Love and Orgasm by Alexander Lowen. Your problem is mental.
 
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Start having sex with girls u actually find attractive instead of landwhales from Tinder.
No jokes aside, during my down phase and to end myself imposed dry spell, I had a sex with a chubby girl and I finished the first time :(
 

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Hi OP. I have the same problem. What has recently worked for me is I start with a condom; If I dont kum after a while, the condom comes off.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Start banging younger, hotter chicks. I knew a guy that was 54 banging a 16 year old, and he said it did wonders for him.
 

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Hi Jake,
Yes I have the same problem,you are probably burning the candle both ends,yes
Porn Video clips help but often in order to keep my prostate healthy I get her to help
masturbate,quite enjoyable.
 
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