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I literally have the reverse issue of being a minuteman and yes it sounds like a good problem to have but it isn't. It can take me a minimum of 3 sexual occasions to finally finish with the same women. Even after I finish, it can still be inconsistent and go on for too long. Usually If I don't finish in the first time then it's usually no big deal, but usually girls start complaining after the second time. I also fap literally once a week and I've been able to climax sometimes after fapping, so idk, if that's even related.

Please help!
 

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I literally have the reverse issue of being a minuteman and yes it sounds like a good problem to have but it isn't. It can take me a minimum of 3 sexual occasions to finally finish with the same women. Even after I finish, it can still be inconsistent and go on for too long. Usually If I don't finish in the first time then it's usually no big deal, but usually girls start complaining after the second time. I also fap literally once a week and I've been able to climax sometimes after fapping, so idk, if that's even related.

Please help!
Yeah I am the same...I don't view it as an issue, I want to fvck them senseless and they seem to love it so I am not sure why you view it as an issue.
 

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Play a fantasy in your head. Use another girl if you have to, lol.
 
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I literally have the reverse issue of being a minuteman and yes it sounds like a good problem to have but it isn't. It can take me a minimum of 3 sexual occasions to finally finish with the same women. Even after I finish, it can still be inconsistent and go on for too long. Usually If I don't finish in the first time then it's usually no big deal, but usually girls start complaining after the second time. I also fap literally once a week and I've been able to climax sometimes after fapping, so idk, if that's even related.

Please help!
Read the book Love and Orgasm by Alexander Lowen. Your problem is mental.
 

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Play a fantasy in your head. Use another girl if you have to, lol.
That's not good $ez if you have to use another woman in your mind

I literally have the reverse issue of being a minuteman and yes it sounds like a good problem to have but it isn't. It can take me a minimum of 3 sexual occasions to finally finish with the same women. Even after I finish, it can still be inconsistent and go on for too long. Usually If I don't finish in the first time then it's usually no big deal, but usually girls start complaining after the second time. I also fap literally once a week and I've been able to climax sometimes after fapping, so idk, if that's even related.

Please help!
That happens to me as well, after I get comfortable with a girl by the 3 time I can finish faster, I think is all mental, maybe you in you think you won't do a good job and that's why you can't finish. You think if you finish fast she will think you're not good in bed, but girls find that attractive, when sometimes you finish fast and they don't cause that sends a signal you desire her too much, not all the time but sometimes taking care of your needs first without thinking of hers is an alpha characteristic.

What helped me was to just let go and focus on the feeling by letting go of any expectations, if I finish fine if I dont fine too, do it slowly and focus on the feeling, enjoy the moment without expectations and it will work.
 
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Start having sex with girls u actually find attractive instead of landwhales from Tinder.
No jokes aside, during my down phase and to end myself imposed dry spell, I had a sex with a chubby girl and I finished the first time :(
 

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Hi OP. I have the same problem. What has recently worked for me is I start with a condom; If I dont kum after a while, the condom comes off.
 

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Start banging younger, hotter chicks. I knew a guy that was 54 banging a 16 year old, and he said it did wonders for him.
 

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Hi Jake,
Yes I have the same problem,you are probably burning the candle both ends,yes
Porn Video clips help but often in order to keep my prostate healthy I get her to help
masturbate,quite enjoyable.
 
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