"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I literally have the reverse issue of being a minuteman and yes it sounds like a good problem to have but it isn't. It can take me a minimum of 3 sexual occasions to finally finish with the same women. Even after I finish, it can still be inconsistent and go on for too long. Usually If I don't finish in the first time then it's usually no big deal, but usually girls start complaining after the second time. I also fap literally once a week and I've been able to climax sometimes after fapping, so idk, if that's even related.

Please help!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I literally have the reverse issue of being a minuteman and yes it sounds like a good problem to have but it isn't. It can take me a minimum of 3 sexual occasions to finally finish with the same women. Even after I finish, it can still be inconsistent and go on for too long. Usually If I don't finish in the first time then it's usually no big deal, but usually girls start complaining after the second time. I also fap literally once a week and I've been able to climax sometimes after fapping, so idk, if that's even related.

Please help!
Yeah I am the same...I don't view it as an issue, I want to fvck them senseless and they seem to love it so I am not sure why you view it as an issue.
 

BillyPilgrim

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Play a fantasy in your head. Use another girl if you have to, lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I literally have the reverse issue of being a minuteman and yes it sounds like a good problem to have but it isn't. It can take me a minimum of 3 sexual occasions to finally finish with the same women. Even after I finish, it can still be inconsistent and go on for too long. Usually If I don't finish in the first time then it's usually no big deal, but usually girls start complaining after the second time. I also fap literally once a week and I've been able to climax sometimes after fapping, so idk, if that's even related.

Please help!
Read the book Love and Orgasm by Alexander Lowen. Your problem is mental.
 
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Start having sex with girls u actually find attractive instead of landwhales from Tinder.
No jokes aside, during my down phase and to end myself imposed dry spell, I had a sex with a chubby girl and I finished the first time :(
 

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Hi OP. I have the same problem. What has recently worked for me is I start with a condom; If I dont kum after a while, the condom comes off.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Start banging younger, hotter chicks. I knew a guy that was 54 banging a 16 year old, and he said it did wonders for him.
 

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Hi Jake,
Yes I have the same problem,you are probably burning the candle both ends,yes
Porn Video clips help but often in order to keep my prostate healthy I get her to help
masturbate,quite enjoyable.
 
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