"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How can I stop not being able to enjoy anything?

nelysses

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I have opened a few girl posts before but the problem is much different this time.

I have been masturbating too much for years and I am fixing it. I do sports, focus on my studies etc.

But I can't enjoy anything anymore for some reason I never know. That's why I even sleep 12 hours a day.

I used to be antisocial and loved home. Now nothing gives me pleasure when I am at home. If I go out, I have a few friends. I even started to feel jealous of my friends and other people. I meet my friends and I start to get bored before 1 hour.

They go to clubs (I didn't like them since I was little and my family doesn't like them because they are conservative. I live with them because I am still a student. There is no club in my city and I don't want to go to another city to go to a club.) But I don't enjoy it.

We do something else etc. but at the end of the day I have become someone who can't tolerate anything and can't enjoy it.

I already had OCD. I think depression could be added to this but I honestly don't want to get diagnosed and use medication.

I know you are not a psychologist, but what do you think I can do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Focus on school, education, fitness and finances and **** all the other nonsense.

You're at literally the least stressful point of your life. It will only get more challenging.
 

Travel memoir21

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Please by all means stop masturbating, that will make you more depress. You said you practice to Islam, turn to your faith to rejuvinate you in your times of need. Stop being so self absorbed and go out and help someone whose less fortunate than you, be less absorbed in your problems and turn to gratitude and peace of mind through God or love consciousness and practicing moderation and self discipline/ delayed gratification in your life.
 

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I have opened a few girl posts before but the problem is much different this time.

I have been masturbating too much for years and I am fixing it. I do sports, focus on my studies etc.

But I can't enjoy anything anymore for some reason I never know. That's why I even sleep 12 hours a day.

I used to be antisocial and loved home. Now nothing gives me pleasure when I am at home. If I go out, I have a few friends. I even started to feel jealous of my friends and other people. I meet my friends and I start to get bored before 1 hour.

They go to clubs (I didn't like them since I was little and my family doesn't like them because they are conservative. I live with them because I am still a student. There is no club in my city and I don't want to go to another city to go to a club.) But I don't enjoy it.

We do something else etc. but at the end of the day I have become someone who can't tolerate anything and can't enjoy it.

I already had OCD. I think depression could be added to this but I honestly don't want to get diagnosed and use medication.

I know you are not a psychologist, but what do you think I can do?
You're whim worshiping. Cut down on the screen time, spend time out in nature, write a journal every day and go figure out who you are.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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