“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How can I stop not being able to enjoy anything?

nelysses

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I have opened a few girl posts before but the problem is much different this time.

I have been masturbating too much for years and I am fixing it. I do sports, focus on my studies etc.

But I can't enjoy anything anymore for some reason I never know. That's why I even sleep 12 hours a day.

I used to be antisocial and loved home. Now nothing gives me pleasure when I am at home. If I go out, I have a few friends. I even started to feel jealous of my friends and other people. I meet my friends and I start to get bored before 1 hour.

They go to clubs (I didn't like them since I was little and my family doesn't like them because they are conservative. I live with them because I am still a student. There is no club in my city and I don't want to go to another city to go to a club.) But I don't enjoy it.

We do something else etc. but at the end of the day I have become someone who can't tolerate anything and can't enjoy it.

I already had OCD. I think depression could be added to this but I honestly don't want to get diagnosed and use medication.

I know you are not a psychologist, but what do you think I can do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Focus on school, education, fitness and finances and **** all the other nonsense.

You're at literally the least stressful point of your life. It will only get more challenging.
 

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Please by all means stop masturbating, that will make you more depress. You said you practice to Islam, turn to your faith to rejuvinate you in your times of need. Stop being so self absorbed and go out and help someone whose less fortunate than you, be less absorbed in your problems and turn to gratitude and peace of mind through God or love consciousness and practicing moderation and self discipline/ delayed gratification in your life.
 

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I have opened a few girl posts before but the problem is much different this time.

I have been masturbating too much for years and I am fixing it. I do sports, focus on my studies etc.

But I can't enjoy anything anymore for some reason I never know. That's why I even sleep 12 hours a day.

I used to be antisocial and loved home. Now nothing gives me pleasure when I am at home. If I go out, I have a few friends. I even started to feel jealous of my friends and other people. I meet my friends and I start to get bored before 1 hour.

They go to clubs (I didn't like them since I was little and my family doesn't like them because they are conservative. I live with them because I am still a student. There is no club in my city and I don't want to go to another city to go to a club.) But I don't enjoy it.

We do something else etc. but at the end of the day I have become someone who can't tolerate anything and can't enjoy it.

I already had OCD. I think depression could be added to this but I honestly don't want to get diagnosed and use medication.

I know you are not a psychologist, but what do you think I can do?
You're whim worshiping. Cut down on the screen time, spend time out in nature, write a journal every day and go figure out who you are.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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