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Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 19, 2019
- Messages
- 36
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- Age
- 40
I find that women are generally platonic on first dates and expect the guy to initiate everything and she can choose to reject, or proceed and play along.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Spray them with diarrhea of loveSpray on pheromones.
You are joking. I googled search and there is no such pheromone with that name.Spray them with diarrhea of love
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Not exactly correct.I find that women are generally platonic on first dates and expect the guy to initiate everything and she can choose to reject, or proceed and play along.
That's accurate, but I wouldn't say it's easy, unless you have a proclivity for it. If not, that could take quite a bit of work, creativity, and self improvement.Oh and if u r wondering how to be invited out by women, it's easy, be high valued and have a social presence with influence.
Then you are not very good on first dates. I'd bet you are boring them to death.I find that women are generally platonic on first dates and expect the guy to initiate everything and she can choose to reject, or proceed and play along.
How many licks does it take to get to the center of a Tootsie-Pop?How can a guy get a woman to flirt with him?
Wouldn't that be more enduring then learning how to be more supplicating as the day goes by - chasing girls does exactly that.That's accurate, but I wouldn't say it's easy, unless you have a proclivity for it. If not, that could take quite a bit of work, creativity, and self improvement.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.