"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I find that women are generally platonic on first dates and expect the guy to initiate everything and she can choose to reject, or proceed and play along.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Spray them with diarrhea of love
You are joking. I googled search and there is no such pheromone with that name.

I'm not joking. The only reason I don't use pheromones is because I live at home and my mother reacts violently to them. There are allot of nice self-effects with them too. To be honest, I used pheromones more because of the effects it had on me. I also stopped using them on December 6, 2014 and lost interest after that date when they didn't work to stop a panic attack. (i.e. thought it had at least a usefulness for doing this but it did not work)

They had a pheromone called "Instant Shine" which put you in a "feel good" mood instantly so you are able to have a better positive wavelength that is conducive to making approaches rather than feeling tired or low energy and shying away.
They had this putative pheromone that made me more sensitive to nuances within music so you could hear each individual instrument or vocal within a song piece more fluidly and sharply.
Some people used pheormones for the gym because it boosted their testosterone or something and made them more motivated to lift iron or do a heavy work-out.

As secondary to some of these amazing self-effects, yeah, pheromones elicit responses in women that go out of context to the social situation. At the very least, spraying it on symbolises a commitment to want to improve and want a woman on some level to go that far.

I think there is allot of pheromones out there and it's worth trying different brands by trial and error until you find something that works for you. If all people can do is just knock the idea then what alternative are they offering in terms of advice that you don't already know?
 

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Basically
Evolve.

Commence
Hungering for
Anything
Decent.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I find that women are generally platonic on first dates and expect the guy to initiate everything and she can choose to reject, or proceed and play along.
Not exactly correct.

If the 1st date was initiated by her, she will do her best to impress the man.

And you can then choose to reject, or proceed and play along.

Wouldn't that be better?

Oh and if u r wondering how to be invited out by women, it's easy, be high valued and have a social presence with influence.
 

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Oh and if u r wondering how to be invited out by women, it's easy, be high valued and have a social presence with influence.
That's accurate, but I wouldn't say it's easy, unless you have a proclivity for it. If not, that could take quite a bit of work, creativity, and self improvement.
 

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I find that women are generally platonic on first dates and expect the guy to initiate everything and she can choose to reject, or proceed and play along.
Then you are not very good on first dates. I'd bet you are boring them to death.
 

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How can a guy get a woman to flirt with him?
How many licks does it take to get to the center of a Tootsie-Pop?

lets count the ways?
flirt first
kino
smile

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That's accurate, but I wouldn't say it's easy, unless you have a proclivity for it. If not, that could take quite a bit of work, creativity, and self improvement.
Wouldn't that be more enduring then learning how to be more supplicating as the day goes by - chasing girls does exactly that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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