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Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 19, 2019
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- Age
- 40
I find that women are generally platonic on first dates and expect the guy to initiate everything and she can choose to reject, or proceed and play along.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Spray them with diarrhea of loveSpray on pheromones.
You are joking. I googled search and there is no such pheromone with that name.Spray them with diarrhea of love
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Not exactly correct.I find that women are generally platonic on first dates and expect the guy to initiate everything and she can choose to reject, or proceed and play along.
That's accurate, but I wouldn't say it's easy, unless you have a proclivity for it. If not, that could take quite a bit of work, creativity, and self improvement.Oh and if u r wondering how to be invited out by women, it's easy, be high valued and have a social presence with influence.
Then you are not very good on first dates. I'd bet you are boring them to death.I find that women are generally platonic on first dates and expect the guy to initiate everything and she can choose to reject, or proceed and play along.
How many licks does it take to get to the center of a Tootsie-Pop?How can a guy get a woman to flirt with him?
Wouldn't that be more enduring then learning how to be more supplicating as the day goes by - chasing girls does exactly that.That's accurate, but I wouldn't say it's easy, unless you have a proclivity for it. If not, that could take quite a bit of work, creativity, and self improvement.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.