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Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 19, 2019
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I find that women are generally platonic on first dates and expect the guy to initiate everything and she can choose to reject, or proceed and play along.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Spray them with diarrhea of loveSpray on pheromones.
You are joking. I googled search and there is no such pheromone with that name.Spray them with diarrhea of love
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Not exactly correct.I find that women are generally platonic on first dates and expect the guy to initiate everything and she can choose to reject, or proceed and play along.
That's accurate, but I wouldn't say it's easy, unless you have a proclivity for it. If not, that could take quite a bit of work, creativity, and self improvement.Oh and if u r wondering how to be invited out by women, it's easy, be high valued and have a social presence with influence.
Then you are not very good on first dates. I'd bet you are boring them to death.I find that women are generally platonic on first dates and expect the guy to initiate everything and she can choose to reject, or proceed and play along.
How many licks does it take to get to the center of a Tootsie-Pop?How can a guy get a woman to flirt with him?
Wouldn't that be more enduring then learning how to be more supplicating as the day goes by - chasing girls does exactly that.That's accurate, but I wouldn't say it's easy, unless you have a proclivity for it. If not, that could take quite a bit of work, creativity, and self improvement.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.