GoldenArrow
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 19, 2019
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- Age
- 40
I find that women are generally platonic on first dates and expect the guy to initiate everything and she can choose to reject, or proceed and play along.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Spray them with diarrhea of loveSpray on pheromones.
You are joking. I googled search and there is no such pheromone with that name.Spray them with diarrhea of love
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Not exactly correct.I find that women are generally platonic on first dates and expect the guy to initiate everything and she can choose to reject, or proceed and play along.
That's accurate, but I wouldn't say it's easy, unless you have a proclivity for it. If not, that could take quite a bit of work, creativity, and self improvement.Oh and if u r wondering how to be invited out by women, it's easy, be high valued and have a social presence with influence.
Then you are not very good on first dates. I'd bet you are boring them to death.I find that women are generally platonic on first dates and expect the guy to initiate everything and she can choose to reject, or proceed and play along.
How many licks does it take to get to the center of a Tootsie-Pop?How can a guy get a woman to flirt with him?
Wouldn't that be more enduring then learning how to be more supplicating as the day goes by - chasing girls does exactly that.That's accurate, but I wouldn't say it's easy, unless you have a proclivity for it. If not, that could take quite a bit of work, creativity, and self improvement.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.