"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Homosexuality: is it totally genetic, or is a human's sexuality subject to influence?

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Question is in thread title. Also, is there evidence to suggest that straight couples are better at raising children than, say, a single parent or a gay couple?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There is nothing genetic about homosexuality. It is a state of mind that occurs, sometimes at an early age sometimes later. I have nothing against homosexuals and i feel that they have every right to adopt children and live life like every other human being without being discriminated. However when it comes to raising children you cannot get the diversity of a mom and a dad from a gay couple. Im sure gays can be outstanding parents but no matter how feminine a guy can get it cannot replace a female mother and a male father.
 

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just some reading: http://www.skeptictank.org/gaygene.htm

I'm not entirely sure. I mean, look at some gay guys. Some had 'camp' voices and behavior all their lives since they were very little. Surely those sorts of tendencies (i.e. voice, composure and certain aspects of behavior) are genetic AT LEAST to some extent.
 

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Scientists discovered that the more older brothers a guy has, the more likely he was to be gay.

And yes they clearly stated that a person IS born gay.
 

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In Motion said:
There is nothing genetic about homosexuality. It is a state of mind that occurs, sometimes at an early age sometimes later.
how exactly do you know this

and what do you think about gay animals in the wild?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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shaunuk said:
just some reading: http://www.skeptictank.org/gaygene.htm

I'm not entirely sure. I mean, look at some gay guys. Some had 'camp' voices and behavior all their lives since they were very little. Surely those sorts of tendencies (i.e. voice, composure and certain aspects of behavior) are genetic AT LEAST to some extent.
http://richarddawkins.net/article,2401,Gay-scientists-isolate-Christian-gene,Glumbert

Yeah, and here Gay scientists have found a gene that makes you christian.
 

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Genetic.

Xtian's can't accept this though because to do so would be admitting that "God makes mistakes."

So God can't make people be born gay but allows mental retardation at birth. Maybe mental retardation is a choice?
 

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the only reason those homo scientists said people were born gay is cause thats the gays main argument against those that describe it as a mental disorder. Its probably a fetish. I don't think its bad. Trajan who was arguably the greatest leader Rome ever had was basically the ancient version of a modern priest. Yet back in those days noone cared. We might be going backwards?
 

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Ask yourself this: Did you wake up one morning and say "I think I am going to like chicks for the rest of my life?" Have you ever seen a gay guy go straight and stay straight? It doesn't happen.

I wouldn't say its genetic as we all carry a gay gene that can show up in our offspring, for instance like ADD, Parkinsons, or Alzheimers. Its more like a hormonal imbalance.

As for where the ancient Greek version of NAMBLA fits into all this, I have no clue.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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For some its a choice, for others it may be a choice...hence bisexuals...case closed.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Homo's are people with missing chromosomes!!
 

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There is no one answer. It's an argument of nature vs. nurture, but both can be true. Some men and women are just naturally gay. I knew a girl who was a lesbian, but part of this was obviously influenced by her being raped by a man as a young teenager. Everybody is different.
 

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ready123 said:
how exactly do you know this

and what do you think about gay animals in the wild?

Gay animals in the wild is caused by an overpopulation of one sex and a shortage of the other.

As far as is it genetic, I don't beleive so.
 

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wavejams007 said:
Gay animals in the wild is caused by an overpopulation of one sex and a shortage of the other.
there are arguments against that too

it's funny how most of this thread is just speculation. no gay gene has ever been identified but likewise, no one's ever proven it's an absolute choice
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Its not genetic. 25% of posters on this forum that fail to get laid after 3 years of trying to do so, become gay.

Its a proven fact. Ask the mods :) :)
 

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I dont believe it's genetic. I can see both sides of the debate, but I just don't buy it. Wanting to fvck a member of your own gender is not natural, any way you slice it.

Yeah, I didn't wake up one morning thinking "man, I love chicks, I'm gonna be straight!"...But I do have a d!ck and balls, and women have a vagina. It's crazy how it all fits together....
 

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Colossus said:
I dont believe it's genetic. I can see both sides of the debate, but I just don't buy it. Wanting to fvck a member of your own gender is not natural, any way you slice it.
It's happening, and it happens with animals, in the natural world.
Masturbation isn't natural by your definition.
 

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One or two years ago there was a segment of CBS' 60 Minutes II which delved into research conducted by one prominent researcher. When I get the chance, I will try to dig around and find out more information about the 60 Minutes II segment, so as not to be speaking out of my ass, but, to wit, there is scientific evidence to the following:

When a mother has a male child, she starts off with a two percent chance of the son being gay. Then, with every subsequent male child, the chances increase by one-third. Most paradoxically, there is no corresponding increase with lesbian daughters. Somehow, is the suggestion, a mother's body remembers how many sons she has given birth and this plays a factor in sexual orientation.
 

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Deep Dish said:
One or two years ago there was a segment of CBS' 60 Minutes II which delved into research conducted by one prominent researcher. When I get the chance, I will try to dig around and find out more information about the 60 Minutes II segment, so as not to be speaking out of my ass, but, to wit, there is scientific evidence to the following:

When a mother has a male child, she starts off with a two percent chance of the son being gay. Then, with every subsequent male child, the chances increase by one-third. Most paradoxically, there is no corresponding increase with lesbian daughters. Somehow, is the suggestion, a mother's body remembers how many sons she has given birth and this plays a factor in sexual orientation.
Wow! was there any study into how it is possible for the mothers body to "remember." Or could it be more to do with the subsequent males growing up very closely with their brothers.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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