"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Homosexuality: is it totally genetic, or is a human's sexuality subject to influence?

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Question is in thread title. Also, is there evidence to suggest that straight couples are better at raising children than, say, a single parent or a gay couple?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There is nothing genetic about homosexuality. It is a state of mind that occurs, sometimes at an early age sometimes later. I have nothing against homosexuals and i feel that they have every right to adopt children and live life like every other human being without being discriminated. However when it comes to raising children you cannot get the diversity of a mom and a dad from a gay couple. Im sure gays can be outstanding parents but no matter how feminine a guy can get it cannot replace a female mother and a male father.
 

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just some reading: http://www.skeptictank.org/gaygene.htm

I'm not entirely sure. I mean, look at some gay guys. Some had 'camp' voices and behavior all their lives since they were very little. Surely those sorts of tendencies (i.e. voice, composure and certain aspects of behavior) are genetic AT LEAST to some extent.
 

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Scientists discovered that the more older brothers a guy has, the more likely he was to be gay.

And yes they clearly stated that a person IS born gay.
 

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In Motion said:
There is nothing genetic about homosexuality. It is a state of mind that occurs, sometimes at an early age sometimes later.
how exactly do you know this

and what do you think about gay animals in the wild?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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shaunuk said:
just some reading: http://www.skeptictank.org/gaygene.htm

I'm not entirely sure. I mean, look at some gay guys. Some had 'camp' voices and behavior all their lives since they were very little. Surely those sorts of tendencies (i.e. voice, composure and certain aspects of behavior) are genetic AT LEAST to some extent.
http://richarddawkins.net/article,2401,Gay-scientists-isolate-Christian-gene,Glumbert

Yeah, and here Gay scientists have found a gene that makes you christian.
 

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Genetic.

Xtian's can't accept this though because to do so would be admitting that "God makes mistakes."

So God can't make people be born gay but allows mental retardation at birth. Maybe mental retardation is a choice?
 

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the only reason those homo scientists said people were born gay is cause thats the gays main argument against those that describe it as a mental disorder. Its probably a fetish. I don't think its bad. Trajan who was arguably the greatest leader Rome ever had was basically the ancient version of a modern priest. Yet back in those days noone cared. We might be going backwards?
 

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Ask yourself this: Did you wake up one morning and say "I think I am going to like chicks for the rest of my life?" Have you ever seen a gay guy go straight and stay straight? It doesn't happen.

I wouldn't say its genetic as we all carry a gay gene that can show up in our offspring, for instance like ADD, Parkinsons, or Alzheimers. Its more like a hormonal imbalance.

As for where the ancient Greek version of NAMBLA fits into all this, I have no clue.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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For some its a choice, for others it may be a choice...hence bisexuals...case closed.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Homo's are people with missing chromosomes!!
 

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There is no one answer. It's an argument of nature vs. nurture, but both can be true. Some men and women are just naturally gay. I knew a girl who was a lesbian, but part of this was obviously influenced by her being raped by a man as a young teenager. Everybody is different.
 

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ready123 said:
how exactly do you know this

and what do you think about gay animals in the wild?

Gay animals in the wild is caused by an overpopulation of one sex and a shortage of the other.

As far as is it genetic, I don't beleive so.
 

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wavejams007 said:
Gay animals in the wild is caused by an overpopulation of one sex and a shortage of the other.
there are arguments against that too

it's funny how most of this thread is just speculation. no gay gene has ever been identified but likewise, no one's ever proven it's an absolute choice
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Its not genetic. 25% of posters on this forum that fail to get laid after 3 years of trying to do so, become gay.

Its a proven fact. Ask the mods :) :)
 

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I dont believe it's genetic. I can see both sides of the debate, but I just don't buy it. Wanting to fvck a member of your own gender is not natural, any way you slice it.

Yeah, I didn't wake up one morning thinking "man, I love chicks, I'm gonna be straight!"...But I do have a d!ck and balls, and women have a vagina. It's crazy how it all fits together....
 

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Colossus said:
I dont believe it's genetic. I can see both sides of the debate, but I just don't buy it. Wanting to fvck a member of your own gender is not natural, any way you slice it.
It's happening, and it happens with animals, in the natural world.
Masturbation isn't natural by your definition.
 

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One or two years ago there was a segment of CBS' 60 Minutes II which delved into research conducted by one prominent researcher. When I get the chance, I will try to dig around and find out more information about the 60 Minutes II segment, so as not to be speaking out of my ass, but, to wit, there is scientific evidence to the following:

When a mother has a male child, she starts off with a two percent chance of the son being gay. Then, with every subsequent male child, the chances increase by one-third. Most paradoxically, there is no corresponding increase with lesbian daughters. Somehow, is the suggestion, a mother's body remembers how many sons she has given birth and this plays a factor in sexual orientation.
 

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Deep Dish said:
One or two years ago there was a segment of CBS' 60 Minutes II which delved into research conducted by one prominent researcher. When I get the chance, I will try to dig around and find out more information about the 60 Minutes II segment, so as not to be speaking out of my ass, but, to wit, there is scientific evidence to the following:

When a mother has a male child, she starts off with a two percent chance of the son being gay. Then, with every subsequent male child, the chances increase by one-third. Most paradoxically, there is no corresponding increase with lesbian daughters. Somehow, is the suggestion, a mother's body remembers how many sons she has given birth and this plays a factor in sexual orientation.
Wow! was there any study into how it is possible for the mothers body to "remember." Or could it be more to do with the subsequent males growing up very closely with their brothers.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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