Eternal_water
Master Don Juan
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?!?!?!?FairShake said:chumpish alpha
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
?!?!?!?FairShake said:chumpish alpha
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
justified? UFC fighter assaults a fat ar$ehole? strange morality?OC Speedball said:You should never hit a woman. They are very weak compared to us.
But that "How can she slap" video made me rage. All those whiteknights ganging up on him was ridiculous. All he did was slap her back- she wasn't knocked out or anything. But at the same time if a girl slapped me I'd probably just grab her arm or yell at her. Last time I was slapped by a girl was in middle school and I just stood there and took it because it didn't even hurt![]()
Here is a good example of a "justified" white knight. This football player knocks out a girl (all caught on camera) and a UFC fighter that happened to be there goes over and knocks him out:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q9JpeKKBScA&has_verified=1
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
As a fellow black man, I know very well that the justice system favors women. Years ago, it was petting. Now they call it date rape! There are lots of women getting money from "Sexual harassment" cases.PrettyBoyAJ said:You also must understand that even touching a girl the wrong way can mess your life up. In this female dominated society a girl can just call the cops and you will be in handcuffs without any questions being asked. Even if the girl hit you first and you retaliate then your done for. Especially has a black male! Sometimes we act emotionally but in that situation we need to think logically. It can mess up your future and your pockets!
While I do hear lots of stories that would back up this claim, my own personal experience would prove that there must be some exceptions which have no explanation.PrettyBoyAJ said:You also must understand that even touching a girl the wrong way can mess your life up. In this female dominated society a girl can just call the cops and you will be in handcuffs without any questions being asked. Even if the girl hit you first and you retaliate then your done for. Especially has a black male! Sometimes we act emotionally but in that situation we need to think logically. It can mess up your future and your pockets!
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
LOL, I feared for a mass circumcision.Eternal_water said:This is a good example of when its ok to use violence against a woman
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8aXZpYVCNJo&feature=results_main&playnext=1&list=PLF7FC1E2781673969
I've done it, and I have no problem telling this story...5string said:Have any of you guys hit a woman? Has anyone you know hit a woman? Under what circumstances?
Supposedly in domestic disputes, they often want to seperate the combatants by taking one off to jail. So that's the reasoning there. But I agree, it's bullsh!t. They probably figure it's easier to find jail accomodations for a man than a woman. When a woman gets processed, for instance, I think there has to be a female officer present, at least for certain aspects. It's more complicated to deal with a woman than a man, in other words.Atom Smasher said:The thing that most concerns me is all the captain save-a-hos out there and the police. If a women hits you and YOU call the police, guess who gets taken away in handcuffs? More often than not, it's YOU.
Sounds like she had it coming. Risky though, since it was at work.Desdinova said:So one day, we're goofing around and she play-slaps me hard enough to knock my glasses off. Out came the hand an I whacked her across the face. Left a pretty good hand print. She never play-slapped me again, nor did she ever talk to me again.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.