Eternal_water
Master Don Juan
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?!?!?!?FairShake said:chumpish alpha
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
?!?!?!?FairShake said:chumpish alpha
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
justified? UFC fighter assaults a fat ar$ehole? strange morality?OC Speedball said:You should never hit a woman. They are very weak compared to us.
But that "How can she slap" video made me rage. All those whiteknights ganging up on him was ridiculous. All he did was slap her back- she wasn't knocked out or anything. But at the same time if a girl slapped me I'd probably just grab her arm or yell at her. Last time I was slapped by a girl was in middle school and I just stood there and took it because it didn't even hurt![]()
Here is a good example of a "justified" white knight. This football player knocks out a girl (all caught on camera) and a UFC fighter that happened to be there goes over and knocks him out:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q9JpeKKBScA&has_verified=1
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
As a fellow black man, I know very well that the justice system favors women. Years ago, it was petting. Now they call it date rape! There are lots of women getting money from "Sexual harassment" cases.PrettyBoyAJ said:You also must understand that even touching a girl the wrong way can mess your life up. In this female dominated society a girl can just call the cops and you will be in handcuffs without any questions being asked. Even if the girl hit you first and you retaliate then your done for. Especially has a black male! Sometimes we act emotionally but in that situation we need to think logically. It can mess up your future and your pockets!
While I do hear lots of stories that would back up this claim, my own personal experience would prove that there must be some exceptions which have no explanation.PrettyBoyAJ said:You also must understand that even touching a girl the wrong way can mess your life up. In this female dominated society a girl can just call the cops and you will be in handcuffs without any questions being asked. Even if the girl hit you first and you retaliate then your done for. Especially has a black male! Sometimes we act emotionally but in that situation we need to think logically. It can mess up your future and your pockets!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
LOL, I feared for a mass circumcision.Eternal_water said:This is a good example of when its ok to use violence against a woman
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8aXZpYVCNJo&feature=results_main&playnext=1&list=PLF7FC1E2781673969
I've done it, and I have no problem telling this story...5string said:Have any of you guys hit a woman? Has anyone you know hit a woman? Under what circumstances?
Supposedly in domestic disputes, they often want to seperate the combatants by taking one off to jail. So that's the reasoning there. But I agree, it's bullsh!t. They probably figure it's easier to find jail accomodations for a man than a woman. When a woman gets processed, for instance, I think there has to be a female officer present, at least for certain aspects. It's more complicated to deal with a woman than a man, in other words.Atom Smasher said:The thing that most concerns me is all the captain save-a-hos out there and the police. If a women hits you and YOU call the police, guess who gets taken away in handcuffs? More often than not, it's YOU.
Sounds like she had it coming. Risky though, since it was at work.Desdinova said:So one day, we're goofing around and she play-slaps me hard enough to knock my glasses off. Out came the hand an I whacked her across the face. Left a pretty good hand print. She never play-slapped me again, nor did she ever talk to me again.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.