Eternal_water
Master Don Juan
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?!?!?!?FairShake said:chumpish alpha
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
?!?!?!?FairShake said:chumpish alpha
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
justified? UFC fighter assaults a fat ar$ehole? strange morality?OC Speedball said:You should never hit a woman. They are very weak compared to us.
But that "How can she slap" video made me rage. All those whiteknights ganging up on him was ridiculous. All he did was slap her back- she wasn't knocked out or anything. But at the same time if a girl slapped me I'd probably just grab her arm or yell at her. Last time I was slapped by a girl was in middle school and I just stood there and took it because it didn't even hurt![]()
Here is a good example of a "justified" white knight. This football player knocks out a girl (all caught on camera) and a UFC fighter that happened to be there goes over and knocks him out:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q9JpeKKBScA&has_verified=1
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
As a fellow black man, I know very well that the justice system favors women. Years ago, it was petting. Now they call it date rape! There are lots of women getting money from "Sexual harassment" cases.PrettyBoyAJ said:You also must understand that even touching a girl the wrong way can mess your life up. In this female dominated society a girl can just call the cops and you will be in handcuffs without any questions being asked. Even if the girl hit you first and you retaliate then your done for. Especially has a black male! Sometimes we act emotionally but in that situation we need to think logically. It can mess up your future and your pockets!
While I do hear lots of stories that would back up this claim, my own personal experience would prove that there must be some exceptions which have no explanation.PrettyBoyAJ said:You also must understand that even touching a girl the wrong way can mess your life up. In this female dominated society a girl can just call the cops and you will be in handcuffs without any questions being asked. Even if the girl hit you first and you retaliate then your done for. Especially has a black male! Sometimes we act emotionally but in that situation we need to think logically. It can mess up your future and your pockets!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
LOL, I feared for a mass circumcision.Eternal_water said:This is a good example of when its ok to use violence against a woman
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8aXZpYVCNJo&feature=results_main&playnext=1&list=PLF7FC1E2781673969
I've done it, and I have no problem telling this story...5string said:Have any of you guys hit a woman? Has anyone you know hit a woman? Under what circumstances?
Supposedly in domestic disputes, they often want to seperate the combatants by taking one off to jail. So that's the reasoning there. But I agree, it's bullsh!t. They probably figure it's easier to find jail accomodations for a man than a woman. When a woman gets processed, for instance, I think there has to be a female officer present, at least for certain aspects. It's more complicated to deal with a woman than a man, in other words.Atom Smasher said:The thing that most concerns me is all the captain save-a-hos out there and the police. If a women hits you and YOU call the police, guess who gets taken away in handcuffs? More often than not, it's YOU.
Sounds like she had it coming. Risky though, since it was at work.Desdinova said:So one day, we're goofing around and she play-slaps me hard enough to knock my glasses off. Out came the hand an I whacked her across the face. Left a pretty good hand print. She never play-slapped me again, nor did she ever talk to me again.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.