Eternal_water
Master Don Juan
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?!?!?!?FairShake said:chumpish alpha
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
?!?!?!?FairShake said:chumpish alpha
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
justified? UFC fighter assaults a fat ar$ehole? strange morality?OC Speedball said:You should never hit a woman. They are very weak compared to us.
But that "How can she slap" video made me rage. All those whiteknights ganging up on him was ridiculous. All he did was slap her back- she wasn't knocked out or anything. But at the same time if a girl slapped me I'd probably just grab her arm or yell at her. Last time I was slapped by a girl was in middle school and I just stood there and took it because it didn't even hurt![]()
Here is a good example of a "justified" white knight. This football player knocks out a girl (all caught on camera) and a UFC fighter that happened to be there goes over and knocks him out:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q9JpeKKBScA&has_verified=1
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
As a fellow black man, I know very well that the justice system favors women. Years ago, it was petting. Now they call it date rape! There are lots of women getting money from "Sexual harassment" cases.PrettyBoyAJ said:You also must understand that even touching a girl the wrong way can mess your life up. In this female dominated society a girl can just call the cops and you will be in handcuffs without any questions being asked. Even if the girl hit you first and you retaliate then your done for. Especially has a black male! Sometimes we act emotionally but in that situation we need to think logically. It can mess up your future and your pockets!
While I do hear lots of stories that would back up this claim, my own personal experience would prove that there must be some exceptions which have no explanation.PrettyBoyAJ said:You also must understand that even touching a girl the wrong way can mess your life up. In this female dominated society a girl can just call the cops and you will be in handcuffs without any questions being asked. Even if the girl hit you first and you retaliate then your done for. Especially has a black male! Sometimes we act emotionally but in that situation we need to think logically. It can mess up your future and your pockets!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LOL, I feared for a mass circumcision.Eternal_water said:This is a good example of when its ok to use violence against a woman
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8aXZpYVCNJo&feature=results_main&playnext=1&list=PLF7FC1E2781673969
I've done it, and I have no problem telling this story...5string said:Have any of you guys hit a woman? Has anyone you know hit a woman? Under what circumstances?
Supposedly in domestic disputes, they often want to seperate the combatants by taking one off to jail. So that's the reasoning there. But I agree, it's bullsh!t. They probably figure it's easier to find jail accomodations for a man than a woman. When a woman gets processed, for instance, I think there has to be a female officer present, at least for certain aspects. It's more complicated to deal with a woman than a man, in other words.Atom Smasher said:The thing that most concerns me is all the captain save-a-hos out there and the police. If a women hits you and YOU call the police, guess who gets taken away in handcuffs? More often than not, it's YOU.
Sounds like she had it coming. Risky though, since it was at work.Desdinova said:So one day, we're goofing around and she play-slaps me hard enough to knock my glasses off. Out came the hand an I whacked her across the face. Left a pretty good hand print. She never play-slapped me again, nor did she ever talk to me again.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.