Focal core
Master Don Juan
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Very nice progress so far. Thanks for the udpate.My 2 weeks progress.. No shedding so far.. Everything looks great.
Feels like youve been vaccines 2500 times excludingHow does this compare to say a root canal in pain level? What hurts about it? Looks like it would be easy to me.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hey bro, its been 70 days since the hair transplant, at this time i was able to grow my entire hair cos of the new hair at frontal just starting to grow. But no significant growth, but just enough to shape the frontal hairlines..@Focal core give us another update
Def good results. Happy for you man and what matters is that you feel good about yourself. I hear months 5-6 is where the real growth/thickening happens. But for being at 70 days it looks very solid!Hey bro, its been 70 days since the hair transplant, at this time i was able to grow my entire hair cos of the new hair at frontal just starting to grow. But no significant growth, but just enough to shape the frontal hairlines..
Been on finestiride topical, minoxidil orally and folicle growth vitamins that been prescribe since the procedure.
i expect an even better result at 5 month or so.
So here it is after 70days.compared pre procedure.
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Im a happy paid customer so far.. Cheers.
Congrats bro. That is some great results even at 70 days. I'd definitely be a happy customer.So here it is after 70days.compared pre procedure.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yeah definately.. My boss she starting to compliment on my new looks, she shot asking me if its a hair transplant, i said yes and to keep it under. As working from home atm no other feedback from fellow colleagues.Even with that amount of hair growth, do you feel different or notice anyone around you looking at you differently?
Thank you @PowerQuest , sure will post out at 5 month.. Full result should be between 12 to 18 month for most cases.Amazing what can be done terms of the medical area/technology these days in.
Kudos for doing it @Focal core
It would be really cool to see the end result in a few months from now (If you would like to share it of course).
Could you sent pic of your result @Xenom0rphI salute you sir. It takes guts to undergo a hair transplant.
I had a FUT back in 2012 and I remember I was terrified the night before.
I distinctly remember kneeling over the motel bed reciting all the Catholic prayers that had been drilled into my head. I BEGGED the Lord to guide my surgeon's hand so he wouldn't fvck up my hairline and damage my donor hairs.
On the day of the surgery I grit my teeth and took that leap of faith.... and it was well worth it...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I must respectfully decline.Could you sent pic of your result @Xenom0rph
I forgot if you've already explained this before so my apologies if you have. But why 3? Did the first two not take or work long term? Just curious... Thanksiv had 3 transplants and it did my confidence a world of good which in turn impacted postively on my dating life...its a win win.
No apologies needed sir. I had 3,they all were fine,but I was quite bald! Only so many grafts will take in one session,so I just had it thickened up a bit more thats all.Over 6 years. But very happyI forgot if you've already explained this before so my apologies if you have. But why 3? Did the first two not take or work long term? Just curious... Thanks
Holy cow! 3 needed to get some good hair going? Man, you were REALLY bald. LOLNo apologies needed sir. I had 3,they all were fine,but I was quite bald! Only so many grafts will take in one session,so I just had it thickened up a bit more thats all.Over 6 years. But very happy
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.