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My 2 weeks progress.. No shedding so far.. Everything looks great.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Hair transplant tomorrow
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My 2 weeks progress.. No shedding so far.. Everything looks great.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Very nice progress so far. Thanks for the udpate.
Focal core
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Feels like youve been vaccines 2500 times excluding
Anesthesia.. Every times they planted single graft feels like needles punch in your skin even with the anes they given.
FuzzX
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I work with a guy that is bald, he is an absolute monster. His guns run the entire length of the ruler... anyway, he looks surprisingly good bald. In uniform, I must say, he is a super handsome guy. Has a mustache and looks a bit like Tom Selleck, not a dude you'd want to fvck with. He gets messaged from hot women constantly for sex too, he also bounces on his night off. While I support you getting hair cause hey hair looks good too, maybe look for a job change? Moonlight as a bouncer if you can, tends to be pretty lucrative and dude is constantly showing me pics of all the hot women he's pulling (high 9's). I think alot of it is attitude.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I'd never pay that much money just to get some hair.
Modern Man Advice
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@Focal core give us another update
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Hey bro, its been 70 days since the hair transplant, at this time i was able to grow my entire hair cos of the new hair at frontal just starting to grow. But no significant growth, but just enough to shape the frontal hairlines..
Been on finestiride topical, minoxidil orally and folicle growth vitamins that been prescribe since the procedure.
i expect an even better result at 5 month or so.
So here it is after 70days.compared pre procedure.
Im a happy paid customer so far.. Cheers.
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Def good results. Happy for you man and what matters is that you feel good about yourself. I hear months 5-6 is where the real growth/thickening happens. But for being at 70 days it looks very solid!
Good stuff and thanks for the update mate.
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Congrats bro. That is some great results even at 70 days. I'd definitely be a happy customer.
Even with that amount of hair growth, do you feel different or notice anyone around you looking at you differently?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
AureliusMaximus
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Amazing what can be done terms of the medical area/technology these days in.
Kudos for doing it @Focal core
It would be really cool to see the end result in a few months from now (If you would like to share it of course).
Kudos for doing it @Focal core
It would be really cool to see the end result in a few months from now (If you would like to share it of course).
Focal core
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Yeah definately.. My boss she starting to compliment on my new looks, she shot asking me if its a hair transplant, i said yes and to keep it under. As working from home atm no other feedback from fellow colleagues.
When i goes out a noticeable stare from few girls at same venue.
My ex wife starting to smile out of knowhere.. Lol.. Yeah keep smiling girl youre an ex for a reason.. No go.
Its definitely attract girls that care about hair in man.
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Thank you @PowerQuest , sure will post out at 5 month.. Full result should be between 12 to 18 month for most cases.Amazing what can be done terms of the medical area/technology these days in.
Kudos for doing it @Focal core
It would be really cool to see the end result in a few months from now (If you would like to share it of course).
AureliusMaximus
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That would be awesome. Sure very interesting to see. Thank you.
Focal core
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Could you sent pic of your result @Xenom0rph
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I must respectfully decline.
Looking good mate. never mind what people say about baldies being the best blah blah blah,id wager a lot of money that many who are bald,if they could just snap their fingers,and have hair back they would..(not everyone of course...) iv had 3 transplants and it did my confidence a world of good which in turn impacted postively on my dating life...its a win win.Expensive ? Yes. a few weeks of looking a bit weird ? Tick.But once it settles and grows out,its great. And their for life,so,speaking from experience,nice one Focal Core!
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I forgot if you've already explained this before so my apologies if you have. But why 3? Did the first two not take or work long term? Just curious... Thanks
No apologies needed sir. I had 3,they all were fine,but I was quite bald! Only so many grafts will take in one session,so I just had it thickened up a bit more thats all.Over 6 years. But very happy
Holy cow! 3 needed to get some good hair going? Man, you were REALLY bald. LOL
Good for your persistence!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.