Focal core
Master Don Juan
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Very nice progress so far. Thanks for the udpate.My 2 weeks progress.. No shedding so far.. Everything looks great.
Feels like youve been vaccines 2500 times excludingHow does this compare to say a root canal in pain level? What hurts about it? Looks like it would be easy to me.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hey bro, its been 70 days since the hair transplant, at this time i was able to grow my entire hair cos of the new hair at frontal just starting to grow. But no significant growth, but just enough to shape the frontal hairlines..@Focal core give us another update
Def good results. Happy for you man and what matters is that you feel good about yourself. I hear months 5-6 is where the real growth/thickening happens. But for being at 70 days it looks very solid!Hey bro, its been 70 days since the hair transplant, at this time i was able to grow my entire hair cos of the new hair at frontal just starting to grow. But no significant growth, but just enough to shape the frontal hairlines..
Been on finestiride topical, minoxidil orally and folicle growth vitamins that been prescribe since the procedure.
i expect an even better result at 5 month or so.
So here it is after 70days.compared pre procedure.
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Im a happy paid customer so far.. Cheers.
Congrats bro. That is some great results even at 70 days. I'd definitely be a happy customer.So here it is after 70days.compared pre procedure.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yeah definately.. My boss she starting to compliment on my new looks, she shot asking me if its a hair transplant, i said yes and to keep it under. As working from home atm no other feedback from fellow colleagues.Even with that amount of hair growth, do you feel different or notice anyone around you looking at you differently?
Thank you @PowerQuest , sure will post out at 5 month.. Full result should be between 12 to 18 month for most cases.Amazing what can be done terms of the medical area/technology these days in.
Kudos for doing it @Focal core
It would be really cool to see the end result in a few months from now (If you would like to share it of course).
Could you sent pic of your result @Xenom0rphI salute you sir. It takes guts to undergo a hair transplant.
I had a FUT back in 2012 and I remember I was terrified the night before.
I distinctly remember kneeling over the motel bed reciting all the Catholic prayers that had been drilled into my head. I BEGGED the Lord to guide my surgeon's hand so he wouldn't fvck up my hairline and damage my donor hairs.
On the day of the surgery I grit my teeth and took that leap of faith.... and it was well worth it...
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I must respectfully decline.Could you sent pic of your result @Xenom0rph
I forgot if you've already explained this before so my apologies if you have. But why 3? Did the first two not take or work long term? Just curious... Thanksiv had 3 transplants and it did my confidence a world of good which in turn impacted postively on my dating life...its a win win.
No apologies needed sir. I had 3,they all were fine,but I was quite bald! Only so many grafts will take in one session,so I just had it thickened up a bit more thats all.Over 6 years. But very happyI forgot if you've already explained this before so my apologies if you have. But why 3? Did the first two not take or work long term? Just curious... Thanks
Holy cow! 3 needed to get some good hair going? Man, you were REALLY bald. LOLNo apologies needed sir. I had 3,they all were fine,but I was quite bald! Only so many grafts will take in one session,so I just had it thickened up a bit more thats all.Over 6 years. But very happy
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.