"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How does this compare to say a root canal in pain level? What hurts about it? Looks like it would be easy to me.
 

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How does this compare to say a root canal in pain level? What hurts about it? Looks like it would be easy to me.
Feels like youve been vaccines 2500 times excluding
Anesthesia.. Every times they planted single graft feels like needles punch in your skin even with the anes they given.
 

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I work with a guy that is bald, he is an absolute monster. His guns run the entire length of the ruler... anyway, he looks surprisingly good bald. In uniform, I must say, he is a super handsome guy. Has a mustache and looks a bit like Tom Selleck, not a dude you'd want to fvck with. He gets messaged from hot women constantly for sex too, he also bounces on his night off. While I support you getting hair cause hey hair looks good too, maybe look for a job change? Moonlight as a bouncer if you can, tends to be pretty lucrative and dude is constantly showing me pics of all the hot women he's pulling (high 9's). I think alot of it is attitude.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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@Focal core give us another update
Hey bro, its been 70 days since the hair transplant, at this time i was able to grow my entire hair cos of the new hair at frontal just starting to grow. But no significant growth, but just enough to shape the frontal hairlines..

Been on finestiride topical, minoxidil orally and folicle growth vitamins that been prescribe since the procedure.

i expect an even better result at 5 month or so.

So here it is after 70days.compared pre procedure.

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Im a happy paid customer so far.. Cheers.
 

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Hey bro, its been 70 days since the hair transplant, at this time i was able to grow my entire hair cos of the new hair at frontal just starting to grow. But no significant growth, but just enough to shape the frontal hairlines..

Been on finestiride topical, minoxidil orally and folicle growth vitamins that been prescribe since the procedure.

i expect an even better result at 5 month or so.

So here it is after 70days.compared pre procedure.

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Im a happy paid customer so far.. Cheers.
Def good results. Happy for you man and what matters is that you feel good about yourself. I hear months 5-6 is where the real growth/thickening happens. But for being at 70 days it looks very solid!

Good stuff and thanks for the update mate.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Even with that amount of hair growth, do you feel different or notice anyone around you looking at you differently?
Yeah definately.. My boss she starting to compliment on my new looks, she shot asking me if its a hair transplant, i said yes and to keep it under. As working from home atm no other feedback from fellow colleagues.

When i goes out a noticeable stare from few girls at same venue.

My ex wife starting to smile out of knowhere.. Lol.. Yeah keep smiling girl youre an ex for a reason.. No go.

Its definitely attract girls that care about hair in man.
 

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Amazing what can be done terms of the medical area/technology these days in.

Kudos for doing it @Focal core :up::cool:


It would be really cool to see the end result in a few months from now (If you would like to share it of course).
Thank you @PowerQuest , sure will post out at 5 month.. Full result should be between 12 to 18 month for most cases.
 

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I salute you sir. It takes guts to undergo a hair transplant.

I had a FUT back in 2012 and I remember I was terrified the night before.

I distinctly remember kneeling over the motel bed reciting all the Catholic prayers that had been drilled into my head. I BEGGED the Lord to guide my surgeon's hand so he wouldn't fvck up my hairline and damage my donor hairs.

On the day of the surgery I grit my teeth and took that leap of faith.... and it was well worth it...
Could you sent pic of your result @Xenom0rph
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Looking good mate. never mind what people say about baldies being the best blah blah blah,id wager a lot of money that many who are bald,if they could just snap their fingers,and have hair back they would..(not everyone of course...) iv had 3 transplants and it did my confidence a world of good which in turn impacted postively on my dating life...its a win win.Expensive ? Yes. a few weeks of looking a bit weird ? Tick.But once it settles and grows out,its great. And their for life,so,speaking from experience,nice one Focal Core!
 
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iv had 3 transplants and it did my confidence a world of good which in turn impacted postively on my dating life...its a win win.
I forgot if you've already explained this before so my apologies if you have. But why 3? Did the first two not take or work long term? Just curious... Thanks
 

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I forgot if you've already explained this before so my apologies if you have. But why 3? Did the first two not take or work long term? Just curious... Thanks
No apologies needed sir. I had 3,they all were fine,but I was quite bald! Only so many grafts will take in one session,so I just had it thickened up a bit more thats all.Over 6 years. But very happy
 

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No apologies needed sir. I had 3,they all were fine,but I was quite bald! Only so many grafts will take in one session,so I just had it thickened up a bit more thats all.Over 6 years. But very happy
Holy cow! 3 needed to get some good hair going? Man, you were REALLY bald. LOL
Good for your persistence! :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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