This is a no brainer. She is out.
"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
Gf ditched me to meet some other “friend”dude
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
That's some politics bull**** to distract you, while she possibly tries to slide back in... She's out. Those actions are enough brother, you deserve so much better. "Treat yourself don't CHEAT yourself".
backseatjuan
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First of all, she will say it is your fault. Female logic. She cheated so it’s yoir fault. It makes sense because when a woman with alpha (guy she fcking) she is cheating by being near beta (you).
Secondly. Why are you still talking? I chew it up to you, you two are done. Fck off, there is a lot more pssy out there.
backseatjuan
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She is not trying to slide in. For her he is a btch. She will fck a guy infront of him.
OP is beta provider.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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You dont follow instructions very well. There should be ZERO discussion at this point and she should be on the streets.
backseatjuan
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OP
What about that deficit. You must be Someone Idiolizing Mediocre Pusss. Simp
Ditch report
What about that deficit. You must be Someone Idiolizing Mediocre Pusss. Simp
Ditch report
She is trying to justify her own bad behaviour. Dont even entertain her with a reply.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It was to get him to sign on for the cuckholdry. That made her feel more powerful and like she doesn't have to lie.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
We do a play by play like professional sportscasters... True. The key is "in her mind"... He needs to get his "chips" out of her game...
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Just found out some dude that likes her told her Said I paid $5000 for a hooker . Lololol. Either she likes him to believe it or she is the most gullible person in the world . She will feel so bad when she finds out this isn’t true .
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Ah the classic projection. She just told you she cheated 100% and now tries to turn it around.
Anyway this is not only dead, it's toxic for you. Get away from her.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
She's gullible for them, but not you...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You have at least one years recovery. Your level of control, masculinity, self respect, confidence are all eroded due to the situation. Many men recommend doing a full MGTOW for the year of recovery, while you reestablish your masculine core.
Georgepithyou
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At the end of the day don't beat yourself OP, this is a very good learning experience and if you take all the very good advice given in this thread you will come out a much better man.
The good thing about this as well is now you can go out and find a woman who truly likes you.
The good thing about this as well is now you can go out and find a woman who truly likes you.
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Look at the positives...you do not have children or married with this girl. You learned what to screen for with the next girl. She will be going from guy to guy for the rest of her life and at 38 she will wonder where all the good men have gone.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.