Gf ditched me to meet some other “friend”dude

[dude99]

So what should I do? Break up? She says she wants to move out now . I’m thinking she’s staying with me because I’m supporting her.

This is a no brainer. She is out.

 

[mikey2012]

I hear you guys . She saying now she knows I cheated on her 100%. I didn’t cheat . Lol

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I hear you guys . She saying now she knows I cheated on her 100%. I didn’t cheat . Lol

That's some politics bull**** to distract you, while she possibly tries to slide back in... She's out. Those actions are enough brother, you deserve so much better. "Treat yourself don't CHEAT yourself".

 

[backseatjuan]

I hear you guys . She saying now she knows I cheated on her 100%. I didn’t cheat . Lol

First of all, she will say it is your fault. Female logic. She cheated so it’s yoir fault. It makes sense because when a woman with alpha (guy she fcking) she is cheating by being near beta (you).

Secondly. Why are you still talking? I chew it up to you, you two are done. Fck off, there is a lot more pssy out there.

 

[backseatjuan]

That's some politics bull**** to distract you, while she possibly tries to slide back in... She's out. Those actions are enough brother, you deserve so much better. "Treat yourself don't CHEAT yourself".

She is not trying to slide in. For her he is a btch. She will fck a guy infront of him.

OP is beta provider.

 

[bat soup]

Tell her that she's not your girlfriend anymore and that she can pay her own bills or find some other sucker to do it.

 

[Glassguy]

I hear you guys . She saying now she knows I cheated on her 100%. I didn’t cheat . Lol

You dont follow instructions very well. There should be ZERO discussion at this point and she should be on the streets.

 

[backseatjuan]

OP

What about that deficit. You must be Someone Idiolizing Mediocre Pusss. Simp

Ditch report

 

[bat soup]

You may need to call a ****roach removal service and tell them you have an infestation.

 

[dude99]

I hear you guys . She saying now she knows I cheated on her 100%. I didn’t cheat . Lol

She is trying to justify her own bad behaviour. Dont even entertain her with a reply.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I think she's a narcissist. I know all women can be hypocritical in this way, but this is an extreme change, especially just openly verbalizing it. I have experienced this level of it only a few times.

It was to get him to sign on for the cuckholdry. That made her feel more powerful and like she doesn't have to lie.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

He is just devalued to the point in her mind where she doesn't have to bother wearing the mask of fidelity that she had to keep on while she was getting him addicted to her.

We do a play by play like professional sportscasters... True. The key is "in her mind"... He needs to get his "chips" out of her game...

 

[mikey2012]

Just found out some dude that likes her told her Said I paid $5000 for a hooker . Lololol. Either she likes him to believe it or she is the most gullible person in the world . She will feel so bad when she finds out this isn’t true .

 

[bcude]

I hear you guys . She saying now she knows I cheated on her 100%. I didn’t cheat . Lol

Ah the classic projection. She just told you she cheated 100% and now tries to turn it around.
Anyway this is not only dead, it's toxic for you. Get away from her.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Just found out some dude that likes her told her Said I paid $5000 for a hooker . Lololol. Either she likes him to believe it or she is the most gullible person in the world . She will feel so bad when she finds out this isn’t true .

She's gullible for them, but not you...

 

[mikey2012]

Man . How did I get here? By giving in a little each time . Look where it got me. Guys never do that . You will lose your dignity and end up like me.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Man . How did I get here? By giving in a little each time . Look where it got me. Guys never do that . You will lose your dignity and end up like me.

You have at least one years recovery. Your level of control, masculinity, self respect, confidence are all eroded due to the situation. Many men recommend doing a full MGTOW for the year of recovery, while you reestablish your masculine core.

 

[Georgepithyou]

At the end of the day don't beat yourself OP, this is a very good learning experience and if you take all the very good advice given in this thread you will come out a much better man.

The good thing about this as well is now you can go out and find a woman who truly likes you.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Your G/F was stealing sh!t from you? What kind of people are you dating, man? That ain't normal.

OP is the guy in the gutter, So Suave is the camera man

 

[Clamslammer]

Man . How did I get here? By giving in a little each time . Look where it got me. Guys never do that . You will lose your dignity and end up like me.

Look at the positives...you do not have children or married with this girl. You learned what to screen for with the next girl. She will be going from guy to guy for the rest of her life and at 38 she will wonder where all the good men have gone.