"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
FWB Always Backfires? Enjoy It While It Lasts
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Totally distracted by the kid drawings behind him and then he lost me at 1:03.
But yeah, if all she wants is something causal then makes sense don’t invest too much into that. Wear a condom and have fun
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Totally distracted by the kid drawings behind him and then he lost me at 1:03.
But yeah, if all she wants is something causal then makes sense don’t invest too much into that. Wear a condom and have fun
I agree.. However many many guys fall for chicks who treat sex as a casual thing.
They try to persue into a relationship... Do not do it... She will butt fvk you.
If she has a very casual approach to sex. She is a straight up hoe.
Have your fun... But plan an exit date. If she is Toxic.. Then i would suggest 6 weeks of fun, then fukin run from that hoe!!
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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You must set a exit date.. If you think you can keep fukin a slvt forever, then your kidding yourself.
6 weeks.. Then dump her ass!
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Plus she might be cheating on her boyfriend or have some psycho ex. So you really don’t want to drag it out too long anyway.
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Whole thing lasted a week. Lucky as I was severely inexperienced and would have caught feelings fast otherwise. I even said to her "I don't love you, I just wanna fūck you" after our second tryst to try and appear aloof. You should have seen her face drop lmao
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You did well man... You smashed that hoe and moved on.
Some dudes kid themselves into believing they can have regular sex with a damaged sloot for months and months without getting attatched.
I am also guilty of this... What i have learned is, its best to have an exit stratedgy... Limit the time you intend to fuk her for.
If you goof up and catch FEELS for her... Then you guessed it... Another BDP thread on SS lol
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Also some of these sloots will make you feel awesome.
Even though you want FWB some of these chicks will love bomb you and play the perfect girlfriend role, till you catch FEELS or commit.
They are chameleons.. The longer you stay in the FWB type situation the riskier it gets
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Also if she is FWB only then the red flags are probably stopping you from going exclusive with her.
Overtime when the love bombing starts and she acts the perfect girlfriend, you will more than likely overlook the red flags.
And this will eventually be your downfall boyo.
Those red flags will come back and bite you in the ass.