"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FWB Always Backfires? Enjoy It While It Lasts

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Interesting video.. And very to the point.

Don't EVER fall for a chick who takes such a casual approach to sex.

Set yourself a date to get da fuk out.

 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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soulforge said:
Interesting video.. And very to the point.

Don't EVER fall for a chick who takes such a casual approach to sex.

Set yourself a date to get da fuk out.

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Totally distracted by the kid drawings behind him and then he lost me at 1:03.

But yeah, if all she wants is something causal then makes sense don’t invest too much into that. Wear a condom and have fun :).
 
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Totally distracted by the kid drawings behind him and then he lost me at 1:03.

But yeah, if all she wants is something causal then makes sense don’t invest too much into that. Wear a condom and have fun :).
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I agree.. However many many guys fall for chicks who treat sex as a casual thing.

They try to persue into a relationship... Do not do it... She will butt fvk you.

If she has a very casual approach to sex. She is a straight up hoe.

Have your fun... But plan an exit date. If she is Toxic.. Then i would suggest 6 weeks of fun, then fukin run from that hoe!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My first kiss/fūck was one of these Sex & The City watching sloots. And yes, she was from work. We fūcked on the first and second date and that was it, she'd already monkey branched to some other guy waiting in the wings.

Whole thing lasted a week. Lucky as I was severely inexperienced and would have caught feelings fast otherwise. I even said to her "I don't love you, I just wanna fūck you" after our second tryst to try and appear aloof. You should have seen her face drop lmao
 
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My first kiss/fūck was one of these Sex & The City watching sloots. And yes, she was from work. We fūcked on the first and second date and that was it, she'd already monkey branched to some other guy waiting in the wings.

Whole thing lasted a week. Lucky as I was severely inexperienced and would have caught feelings fast otherwise. I even said to her "I don't love you, I just wanna fūck you" after our second tryst to try and appear aloof. You should have seen her face drop lmao
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You did well man... You smashed that hoe and moved on.

Some dudes kid themselves into believing they can have regular sex with a damaged sloot for months and months without getting attatched.

I am also guilty of this... What i have learned is, its best to have an exit stratedgy... Limit the time you intend to fuk her for.

If you goof up and catch FEELS for her... Then you guessed it... Another BDP thread on SS lol
 
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"someone always falls in love"

Not true
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yep. Both my Tinder FWB's have been problematic. Both want(ed) LTR and committed relationships with me, soon after FWB status. I started to get the feels too.
 
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Yep. Both my Tinder FWB's have been problematic. Both want(ed) LTR and committed relationships with me, soon after FWB status. I started to get the feels too.
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Also some of these sloots will make you feel awesome.

Even though you want FWB some of these chicks will love bomb you and play the perfect girlfriend role, till you catch FEELS or commit.

They are chameleons.. The longer you stay in the FWB type situation the riskier it gets
 
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Yep. Both my Tinder FWB's have been problematic. Both want(ed) LTR and committed relationships with me, soon after FWB status. I started to get t
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Hamurabimbi said:
Yep. Both my Tinder FWB's have been problematic. Both want(ed) LTR and committed relationships with me, soon after FWB status. I started to get the feels too.
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Also if she is FWB only then the red flags are probably stopping you from going exclusive with her.

Overtime when the love bombing starts and she acts the perfect girlfriend, you will more than likely overlook the red flags.

And this will eventually be your downfall boyo.

Those red flags will come back and bite you in the ass.
 
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