She treats me well. I mean she doesn't cater to my every need but she goes out of her way for me all the time and always thinks of me first. She's really a good person. When she was hotter and did these nice things for me, it made me want to bang her but now I just give her hugs lol.
We both have higher degrees and she does have a high stress job. It definitely could be a byproduct.
There was about a month before the pandemic where we were going to the gym together and planned on running a 5k and she actually started to look better. We also we're having fun supporting each other. But when everything got shut down it went to sht.
I want to find something we can do at home that we both enjoy. When I brought up going in a low carb diet for myself to cut my body fat, she said "you can do it, but that doesn't mean I'm going to do it."
I mean I've told her in the past that her weight has put a damper on my attraction to her. So anytime I talk about getting in shape or eating better I bet it creates some resentment and some defiance.
There are plenty of things that can be done at home.
Easy things:
3 sets of 10 minutes of step ups(literally just step up one stair and then down one stair repeatedly)
In between sets do 3 sets of 10 each of squats and burpees
Daily Plank challenge
Countless youtube videos you can watch at home and do together..pilates/yoga/bodyweight stuff/high intensity cardio
With all the things that can be done in your own home with no equipment it is simply a cop out to say you need a gym or need this or need that.
You don't need anything other than motivation.
