"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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father's side-effect from covid-vaccine

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I would not get a second shot until October
Why so long? I got the second shot (Moderna) about a month after the first. Is there a shortage up there?
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I guess. What makes me laugh is how everyone was saying it’s more deadly and now they saying it isn’t. How can anyone take the “authorities” seriously anymore? They keep changing their story
....and these are unvaccinated people that got it? Now that more people have been vaccinated could the vaccines be making the symptoms lighter?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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....and these are unvaccinated people that got it? Now that more people have been vaccinated could the vaccines be making the symptoms lighter?
I dont know. I think the article is just talking about the variant itself
 

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I dont know. I think the article is just talking about the variant itself
You could be right. In the UK, its saying the variant is mainly hitting younger unvaccinated people and if that's the case, that means there is less reason to be freaked-out about the variant. Also, when it says its 60% more contagious, it means its 60% more contagious than the original covid strain, not 60% more contagious than the Alpha/UK variant. That's a very important distinction because the Alpha variant was 50% more contagious and we just went through a winter with that and it wasn't the end of the world here.

I'm now leaning in favour of cancelling the appointment because honestly I haven't prayed at all for the past few days and have just lost interest in praying. This didn't happen before and has only happened on the eve of this vaccine appointment. That makes me think that something is up.
 

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You could be right. In the UK, its saying the variant is mainly hitting younger unvaccinated people and if that's the case, that means there is less reason to be freaked-out about the variant. Also, when it says its 60% more contagious, it means its 60% more contagious than the original covid strain, not 60% more contagious than the Alpha/UK variant. That's a very important distinction because the Alpha variant was 50% more contagious and we just went through a winter with that and it wasn't the end of the world here.

I'm now leaning in favour of cancelling the appointment because honestly I haven't prayed at all for the past few days and have just lost interest in praying. This didn't happen before and has only happened on the eve of this vaccine appointment. That makes me think that something is up.
Well I’m not religious so keep that in mind. I haven’t prayed for years. But it does seem a bit fishy how they keep changing their story
 

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Well I’m not religious so keep that in mind. I haven’t prayed for years. But it does seem a bit fishy how they keep changing their story
I know you are not religious. If I wasnt "religious" as you call it then I would 100% have taken the vaccine a month ago. So its referenced because its a heavy influence with me. However most arguements were logical issues (ie the side effects, how serious is the delta in a first world context where most people are vaccinated, etc....).
However I think seeing how ficky I have been over the last year, as @zekko pointed out, I have been rather leftist or subscribing to leftist media. This recent about face is completely out of character to what I have been posing about the virus in the past year.
(No issues with wearing masks, social distancing, or churches closing down, but now a hissy fit on the vaccine like a right-winger. Now I dont think the virus is real or serious enough becauae a vaccine is introduced?).
 

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I know you are not religious. If I wasnt "religious" as you call it then I would 100% have taken the vaccine a month ago. So its referenced because its a heavy influence with me. However most arguements were logical issues (ie the side effects, how serious is the delta in a first world context where most people are vaccinated, etc....).
However I think seeing how ficky I have been over the last year, as @zekko pointed out, I have been rather leftist or subscribing to leftist media. This recent about face is completely out of character to what I have been posing about the virus in the past year.
(No issues with wearing masks, social distancing, or churches closing down, but now a hissy fit on the vaccine like a right-winger. Now I dont think the virus is real or serious enough becauae a vaccine is introduced?).
well it’s funny because I used to get all my shots and everything. But it’s just so damn suspicious. I think it’s wise to pay attention to inconsistencies in narrative and especially be wary of when people try to influence decisions through fear or bribery.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I do have to admit feeling a strong craving for this shot. Its not a drug but I feel a craving for the needle. Like some mental void or curiosity. The three prior cancellations are getting to me I guess.

Why is there such a strong craving? Its like I feel my mind will be put to ease if I take a shot and I will be in cloud 9. Maybe heaven if something goes wrong.
 

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This is the origin of conspiracy theories.
He went to an empty hospital at a time ICUs were supposed to be full of covid patients so he of all people has a right to be skeptical.

I have seen the govwrnment flip flop on Astrezeneca and are now talking about mix and matching mRna vaccines when the vaccine manufacturers do not recommend this.

Here in Canada its not just conspiracy theory but credibility and competence.
 

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He went to an empty hospital at a time ICUs were supposed to be full of covid patients so he of all people has a right to be skeptical.

I have seen the govwrnment flip flop on Astrezeneca and are now talking about mix and matching mRna vaccines when the vaccine manufacturers do not recommend this.

Here in Canada its not just conspiracy theory but credibility and competence.
Mixing isn’t done in the US as far as I know.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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