"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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father's side-effect from covid-vaccine

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I would not get a second shot until October
Why so long? I got the second shot (Moderna) about a month after the first. Is there a shortage up there?
 

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I guess. What makes me laugh is how everyone was saying it’s more deadly and now they saying it isn’t. How can anyone take the “authorities” seriously anymore? They keep changing their story
....and these are unvaccinated people that got it? Now that more people have been vaccinated could the vaccines be making the symptoms lighter?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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....and these are unvaccinated people that got it? Now that more people have been vaccinated could the vaccines be making the symptoms lighter?
I dont know. I think the article is just talking about the variant itself
 

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I dont know. I think the article is just talking about the variant itself
You could be right. In the UK, its saying the variant is mainly hitting younger unvaccinated people and if that's the case, that means there is less reason to be freaked-out about the variant. Also, when it says its 60% more contagious, it means its 60% more contagious than the original covid strain, not 60% more contagious than the Alpha/UK variant. That's a very important distinction because the Alpha variant was 50% more contagious and we just went through a winter with that and it wasn't the end of the world here.

I'm now leaning in favour of cancelling the appointment because honestly I haven't prayed at all for the past few days and have just lost interest in praying. This didn't happen before and has only happened on the eve of this vaccine appointment. That makes me think that something is up.
 

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You could be right. In the UK, its saying the variant is mainly hitting younger unvaccinated people and if that's the case, that means there is less reason to be freaked-out about the variant. Also, when it says its 60% more contagious, it means its 60% more contagious than the original covid strain, not 60% more contagious than the Alpha/UK variant. That's a very important distinction because the Alpha variant was 50% more contagious and we just went through a winter with that and it wasn't the end of the world here.

I'm now leaning in favour of cancelling the appointment because honestly I haven't prayed at all for the past few days and have just lost interest in praying. This didn't happen before and has only happened on the eve of this vaccine appointment. That makes me think that something is up.
Well I’m not religious so keep that in mind. I haven’t prayed for years. But it does seem a bit fishy how they keep changing their story
 

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Well I’m not religious so keep that in mind. I haven’t prayed for years. But it does seem a bit fishy how they keep changing their story
I know you are not religious. If I wasnt "religious" as you call it then I would 100% have taken the vaccine a month ago. So its referenced because its a heavy influence with me. However most arguements were logical issues (ie the side effects, how serious is the delta in a first world context where most people are vaccinated, etc....).
However I think seeing how ficky I have been over the last year, as @zekko pointed out, I have been rather leftist or subscribing to leftist media. This recent about face is completely out of character to what I have been posing about the virus in the past year.
(No issues with wearing masks, social distancing, or churches closing down, but now a hissy fit on the vaccine like a right-winger. Now I dont think the virus is real or serious enough becauae a vaccine is introduced?).
 

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I know you are not religious. If I wasnt "religious" as you call it then I would 100% have taken the vaccine a month ago. So its referenced because its a heavy influence with me. However most arguements were logical issues (ie the side effects, how serious is the delta in a first world context where most people are vaccinated, etc....).
However I think seeing how ficky I have been over the last year, as @zekko pointed out, I have been rather leftist or subscribing to leftist media. This recent about face is completely out of character to what I have been posing about the virus in the past year.
(No issues with wearing masks, social distancing, or churches closing down, but now a hissy fit on the vaccine like a right-winger. Now I dont think the virus is real or serious enough becauae a vaccine is introduced?).
well it’s funny because I used to get all my shots and everything. But it’s just so damn suspicious. I think it’s wise to pay attention to inconsistencies in narrative and especially be wary of when people try to influence decisions through fear or bribery.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I do have to admit feeling a strong craving for this shot. Its not a drug but I feel a craving for the needle. Like some mental void or curiosity. The three prior cancellations are getting to me I guess.

Why is there such a strong craving? Its like I feel my mind will be put to ease if I take a shot and I will be in cloud 9. Maybe heaven if something goes wrong.
 

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This is the origin of conspiracy theories.
He went to an empty hospital at a time ICUs were supposed to be full of covid patients so he of all people has a right to be skeptical.

I have seen the govwrnment flip flop on Astrezeneca and are now talking about mix and matching mRna vaccines when the vaccine manufacturers do not recommend this.

Here in Canada its not just conspiracy theory but credibility and competence.
 

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He went to an empty hospital at a time ICUs were supposed to be full of covid patients so he of all people has a right to be skeptical.

I have seen the govwrnment flip flop on Astrezeneca and are now talking about mix and matching mRna vaccines when the vaccine manufacturers do not recommend this.

Here in Canada its not just conspiracy theory but credibility and competence.
Mixing isn’t done in the US as far as I know.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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