Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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F*ck you wheelchair ,lifting log

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Great work, on your way 90kg!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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keep charging hard and enjoy the weekend.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Krueg said:
keep charging hard and enjoy the weekend.
thanks! though the weekend was a bit boring.

tues:
ROWS and military press


MP- w- 35X5X3
lift- 40X5
45X5
50X7
35X10X5
Rows - 40X5
45X5
50X8
rack pulls - 5/3/1
BP close grip 8X3
triceps extensions 5X3
curls 8X3
shrugs 8X3
 

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switch said:
Fri-squats
w- 40X5X2 50X5X2 55X3
squats 70X3
75X3
80X3
50X5X3
cardio
biceps

BW=87kgs

im going to start cutting from today onwards
Nice work switch! Why cut now? You still have room to get bigger!
 

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Krueg said:
Nice work switch! Why cut now? You still have room to get bigger!
well idk to be honest... i was like 84 for about 2 months(22nd feb -25th march) and on 19th april i was 87 :nervous:

2.5 kgs of muscle?i doubt that ....must be fat although my clothes are still the same and i dont feel any tightness...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DanZy said:
Weight fluctuates like crazy depending on numerous variables, it's not a great way to judge yourself
agreed, i think i gotta get hold of a caliper again and check bf%

sun--MP
w-35X5X3
MP - 40X3
45X3
50X6
^ finally improved my Military press :D
i know i could do like 12 reps or more on 50, but i got some pain in my right wrist since saturday morning , i think its due to a recent...fight....anyway
i think i'll go for 60kgs next week and see how many reps i can do

my biceps have grown by 1inch
traps are bigger now, not big but larger
belly still there :(...but its smaller, waaaaay smaller
neck has grown by 1 inch
thighs by 1/2 inch

BW is 87.8-86 kgs


ill post pictures on june....look forward to it perverts.. (purefilth i mean you):cheer:
 

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ill post pictures on june....look forward to it perverts.. (purefilth i mean you):cheer:
hah! cheeky bastard!:D

These benches - are you doing 3 sets of 5? or just 3 reps per weight step up?

I mean it shouldn't really matter as long as you pust to exhaustion/failure by the end of the working weight, but it doesnt seem like much if theyre not sets:nervous:

Still - if you're gaining and you're happy with the gains, then ignore this bit:D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hah! cheeky bastard!:D

These benches - are you doing 3 sets of 5? or just 3 reps per weight step up?

I mean it shouldn't really matter as long as you pust to exhaustion/failure by the end of the working weight, but it doesnt seem like much if theyre not sets:nervous:

Still - if you're gaining and you're happy with the gains, then ignore this bit:D
just 3 reps per weight,ive had around 4 kgs of gains so far in 2 months (10lbs)
 

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just 3 reps per weight,ive had around 4 kgs of gains so far in 2 months (10lbs)
try doing them as sets - push at least 8 into each set, you'll notice endurance, strength going up. When the weight gets heavy, I go for failure before I drop the weight a couple of disks and go to failure again.

chest and triceps recover fast - dont be afraid to bash them HARD - they soon explode out :D
 

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sun OHM

squats
40X5X2
50X5X2
60X5
70X5

OHM
WARM UP -3 SETS

45X5
50X4
55X4
60X1 (YES finally hit 60kgs which is 0.7 of my bw :D)

triceps exten. 8X3
biceps 8X3
shrugs 8X3

cardio
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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