You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
thanks! though the weekend was a bit boring.Krueg said:keep charging hard and enjoy the weekend.
Nice work switch! Why cut now? You still have room to get bigger!switch said:Fri-squats
w- 40X5X2 50X5X2 55X3
squats 70X3
75X3
80X3
50X5X3
cardio
biceps
BW=87kgs
im going to start cutting from today onwards
well idk to be honest... i was like 84 for about 2 months(22nd feb -25th march) and on 19th april i was 87 :nervous:Krueg said:Nice work switch! Why cut now? You still have room to get bigger!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
agreed, i think i gotta get hold of a caliper again and check bf%DanZy said:Weight fluctuates like crazy depending on numerous variables, it's not a great way to judge yourself
hah! cheeky bastard!switch said:ill post pictures on june....look forward to it perverts.. (purefilth i mean you):cheer:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
just 3 reps per weight,ive had around 4 kgs of gains so far in 2 months (10lbs)Purefilth said:hah! cheeky bastard!![]()
These benches - are you doing 3 sets of 5? or just 3 reps per weight step up?
I mean it shouldn't really matter as long as you pust to exhaustion/failure by the end of the working weight, but it doesnt seem like much if theyre not sets:nervous:
Still - if you're gaining and you're happy with the gains, then ignore this bit![]()
try doing them as sets - push at least 8 into each set, you'll notice endurance, strength going up. When the weight gets heavy, I go for failure before I drop the weight a couple of disks and go to failure again.switch said:just 3 reps per weight,ive had around 4 kgs of gains so far in 2 months (10lbs)
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.