You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
thanks! though the weekend was a bit boring.Krueg said:keep charging hard and enjoy the weekend.
Nice work switch! Why cut now? You still have room to get bigger!switch said:Fri-squats
w- 40X5X2 50X5X2 55X3
squats 70X3
75X3
80X3
50X5X3
cardio
biceps
BW=87kgs
im going to start cutting from today onwards
well idk to be honest... i was like 84 for about 2 months(22nd feb -25th march) and on 19th april i was 87 :nervous:Krueg said:Nice work switch! Why cut now? You still have room to get bigger!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
agreed, i think i gotta get hold of a caliper again and check bf%DanZy said:Weight fluctuates like crazy depending on numerous variables, it's not a great way to judge yourself
hah! cheeky bastard!switch said:ill post pictures on june....look forward to it perverts.. (purefilth i mean you):cheer:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
just 3 reps per weight,ive had around 4 kgs of gains so far in 2 months (10lbs)Purefilth said:hah! cheeky bastard!![]()
These benches - are you doing 3 sets of 5? or just 3 reps per weight step up?
I mean it shouldn't really matter as long as you pust to exhaustion/failure by the end of the working weight, but it doesnt seem like much if theyre not sets:nervous:
Still - if you're gaining and you're happy with the gains, then ignore this bit![]()
try doing them as sets - push at least 8 into each set, you'll notice endurance, strength going up. When the weight gets heavy, I go for failure before I drop the weight a couple of disks and go to failure again.switch said:just 3 reps per weight,ive had around 4 kgs of gains so far in 2 months (10lbs)
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.