Magma
Senior Don Juan
Bump.
This thread made me laugh heartily.
This thread made me laugh heartily.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
speakeasy said:I would eat out a girl with some hair just to try it. I've never been with a girl who wasn't shaved so I can't attest to it. But I'd try it at least once.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I keep things trimmed down myself, but I think a dude shaving his nuts clean sounds feminine to me.Magma said:Yo Speak -
I don't think there's anything wrong with a little manscaping, just to clean things up a bit. Cuts down on odor and women are a little more willing to go the oral distance on my pole when it's trimmed up. Not shaved, but trimmed. Big difference.
It's like the guy that plucks or trims his unibrow or the ol' nose hairs because it's just general cleanliness/hygiene/maintenance.
I can't eat a hairy bush. Bottom line. And I can't imagine that women like to bury their face in a man-bush either.
When I went in for my vasectomy a full shave was required and I discovered something - balls don't itch, hairy balls itch. Ever since then I just keep all that shaved and as a bonus chicks really appreciate it. They like it enough to make nice comments about it, not to mention some nice things they have volunteered to do.speakeasy said:I keep things trimmed down myself, but I think a dude shaving his nuts clean sounds feminine to me.