Magma
Senior Don Juan
Bump.
This thread made me laugh heartily.
This thread made me laugh heartily.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
speakeasy said:I would eat out a girl with some hair just to try it. I've never been with a girl who wasn't shaved so I can't attest to it. But I'd try it at least once.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I keep things trimmed down myself, but I think a dude shaving his nuts clean sounds feminine to me.Magma said:Yo Speak -
I don't think there's anything wrong with a little manscaping, just to clean things up a bit. Cuts down on odor and women are a little more willing to go the oral distance on my pole when it's trimmed up. Not shaved, but trimmed. Big difference.
It's like the guy that plucks or trims his unibrow or the ol' nose hairs because it's just general cleanliness/hygiene/maintenance.
I can't eat a hairy bush. Bottom line. And I can't imagine that women like to bury their face in a man-bush either.
When I went in for my vasectomy a full shave was required and I discovered something - balls don't itch, hairy balls itch. Ever since then I just keep all that shaved and as a bonus chicks really appreciate it. They like it enough to make nice comments about it, not to mention some nice things they have volunteered to do.speakeasy said:I keep things trimmed down myself, but I think a dude shaving his nuts clean sounds feminine to me.